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#30: January 08, 2020, 10:25:45 AM
I'm surprised that Kit hasn't been jumping in. Has anyone heard from her lately? Is everything ok?
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#31: January 08, 2020, 10:28:56 AM
I would jusy like to say. I’m a single mum to three girls...if there’s no alcohol or gossiping I’m not coming HAHAHAHAHA! No I joke but I do think it’s a must 😉

I must admit Milly I haven’t heard from KiT in a while now you mention it.
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#32: January 08, 2020, 02:18:15 PM
This one is booking up:  https://www.homeaway.co.uk/p8357309?adultsCount=9&arrival=2020-06-14&departure=2020-06-21

Summer is all booked up.  First 3 weeks are still open.  The 4th week was open earlier but it’s booked now too.
Right by the beach and pub.   6 bedrooms/5 baths.   Would need a few to share a bedroom, or maybe all depending on the final count.

I’m surprised how booked up it is already in Southwold.   Popular destination.   Can we all have a look at the 3 listed earlier and share our opinion?   Something tells me we don’t have a lot of time before these ones are all booked soon.   Two of these are also on the Airbnb website.   For our estimated group size and proximity to the beach, there isn’t much else to look at.   

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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#33: January 09, 2020, 06:50:46 AM
I might be able to come down but only for the weekend while the kids are with Beast. I can't ask him to take a whole week off because we already planned a family holiday the last few days of June to beginning of July.

So don't include me in the accommodation count, but I will likely show up to say hi and hang out for a few days. I can arrange my own hotel or what have you.  :)

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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#34: January 09, 2020, 06:54:37 AM
Roughly how many do we think we will be?
If I have a rough idea, I can stroll round the corner to the local rentals office and see what they can come up with?

And maybe some other folks can do part but not all of a week?
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#35: January 09, 2020, 07:21:52 AM
Hi Everyone.
Just catching up on this tread. Depending on my diary and work but  I wonder if you would mind if I tried to join you for a day or something??? If you are planning on sothwold its only a 75minute drive for me. I'll fully understand if you need full x days commitment.
But It would be great to meet up even just for coffee, cake and chatter
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#36: January 09, 2020, 07:24:23 AM
I may not be able to have a full week. I may. May not. Won’t know until nearer the time when
I can work out who can have kids etc. But minimum I can come for a few days. However still more than happy to pay my fair share :)
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#37: January 09, 2020, 09:02:14 AM
This sounds fantastic—thank you Milly for starting this process again. I’m not sure June will work for me though—unless it is later June? Would September be a viable option if we cannot find anything in June? Count me in tentatively, depending on dates, etc.
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#38: January 09, 2020, 09:07:07 AM
I can do September. But not mid September
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#39: January 09, 2020, 11:51:36 AM
Actually September is okay for me too as long as I am back home by Sept 26. 

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