Hi and welcome to Heros Spouse. Sorry, I sent that off in a rush for I was just entering into a face time moment with my daughter.
There are several other articles that you should be able to access around that same address ...they continue to be solid with regards to what MLC is about and well worth reading.
Let us know if we can be of any help.
"Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see" Hebrews 11:1
"You enrich my life and are a source of joy and consolation to me. But if I lose you, I will not, I must not spend the rest of my life in unhappiness."
" The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it". Flannery O'Connor
https://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/chapter-contents.html