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#80: September 18, 2024, 08:24:12 PM
Do tell more about those solar screens you built- please. I was reading about bungalows this week and had not realized that it was Frank Lloyd Wright who had turned architecture on its head by using open space design instead of separate rooms and lots of hallways. The abundance of natural light in your new home sounds delightful.

Hi, forthetrees

I didn't realize FLW started that. I like this house because while the living areas are visually connected, there are still delineations so I don't feel like I'm living in a warehouse.

The natural light is awesome, but the sun is too direct in the summer mornings. It was hot in the main areas by 8:30 in the morning, and I was also worried about UV fading everything. Some of the windows had blinds, but the doors had nothing on them so I started by tinting the door glass. (Plus I tinted the whole bar room, which faces the sun in the morning.) Even though it was the lightest tint film and designed to block mostly UV and IR, it still changes the color of the light. Plus, I didn't want to hinder the light in the winter when the sun will be off to the side, so I wanted something removable for the other windows.

Somehow I found solar screens on the internet, like this place: https://www.solarscreenfactory.com/

I found a place here that builds screens, but they never responded to my request for a material sample. I then found bulk rolls on the Home Depot website. The close up pictures make it look like an odd weave, but it's really just fiberglass window screen with an extra thick coating to block more light. I wound up purchasing a roll of Phifer Sun Tex 80 in grey because it matched the house better, and I didn't want to go to 90% blockage so I could still see clouds and thunderstorms.
https://www.phifer.com/product/suntex-80-90/

I bought some DIY window screen frames and started cutting.
https://www.homedepot.com/p/Screen-Tight-5-16-in-x-48-in-White-Window-Screen-Accessory-Frame-Kit-WSKIT51648/100042901
(They come in other colors, I managed to find plain aluminum before.) The square-ish windows were easy, but most of my windows have angled tops to match the roofline, so I had to cut the plastic corner brackets, set up the frame, and then epoxy the brackets back together. I also had to make some retaining clips for my upper bar windows since they used quarter-round moulding on those and the springs that come with the frames wouldn't have kept them in. Even without a bottom retaining channel like window screens usually have, mine have stayed on fine in the occasional heavy wind gusts we get here.

Overall, there's still pretty good visibility through the screens, and they don't change the color of the light. I can stand in the sun and not start to sweat. Plus, they're on the outside, so they do a better job of keeping the heat out vs. the tint, which still gets warm on the inside surface. Once the sunrise moves past the back corner of the house, I can take them off and have the full view again. Before I found these my plan was to get pieces of glass cut and then tint those and put them behind the main glass, but the screens will be much easier to deal with and store.

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#81: September 20, 2024, 06:51:07 AM
I grew up in New Mexico and was always fascinated with Zozobra but never attended. I am immensely happy to be reminded of this. It sounds like such a ridiculous time. This is a good reminder for me to add this to my calendar so I can at least watch a livestream. Your upcoming trip to Tombstone sounds pretty cinematic. I hope that is as exciting as it sounds like it will be.

And congrats on the new house! I am still living in a house I got with my ex and am starting to look forward to shedding it. I'm glad you got something that fits so well.

The job stuff is hilarious and so formulaic. I wish you good luck on your project. I imagine it will be immensely gratifying and fulfilling. Hopefully management will hold the form for its duration so you can get some real work done.
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#82: September 23, 2024, 03:24:06 PM


For anyone who was able to read this far, a present for you. (Hi, Nas!)

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Just catching up. The house sounds very cool, congrats.
Just a very meaningless "fluff" note on the red hair, as a former dark auburn dyer, the "clown red" sounds like a damaged hair/lack of upkeep problem. She needs some blue shampoo to neutralize the brassiness  ;).
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#83: September 25, 2024, 08:35:52 PM
Hey JB  :D

New house - oh wow..... so it happened, how very exciting!!! Very awesome.

You went to see Old Man Gloom? I haven't been since I was a kid...... it's quite the spectacle isn't it? I don't know how they can cram that many people in there..... or get out for that matter  ;D

Your ride sounds great..... seems like a really long ride, that sounds great too.

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#84: September 26, 2024, 09:09:33 PM
Hi JB,

Although hard to say goodbye to the memories, there is always value in having a fresh start.   The new house sounds awesome.   Hope you enjoy your life in the new home and glad to hear things are going well.

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#85: September 29, 2024, 09:11:41 PM
Congrats on the house JB.  Sounds really neat and full of personality.  I like the idea of an atrium.
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#86: September 30, 2024, 05:21:58 PM
Just wanted to chime in as well to say congratulations on the house - it sounds amazing! I wasn't familiar with Mossman, I confess. Eichler is the name I associate with that style around here, though he wasn't the only one by any means. Mid-century modern has so much character, and the atrium is a significant part of the charm. It sounds like you are truly making it your own, and that is a wonderful thing.
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#87: October 21, 2024, 08:04:27 PM
Thank you, everyone! (I've been meaning to get back to this...)

Just wanted to chime in as well to say congratulations on the house - it sounds amazing! I wasn't familiar with Mossman, I confess. Eichler is the name I associate with that style around here, though he wasn't the only one by any means. Mid-century modern has so much character, and the atrium is a significant part of the charm. It sounds like you are truly making it your own, and that is a wonderful thing.

Hi, Curiosity: Mossman mostly did "standard issue" brick ranches (they do look mid-century, but more standard ranch than modernist); he wasn't necessarily known for MCM (and I'd argue he's no Eichler  ;D ). There are some amazing MCM homes in different parts of the city, but I don't know who or how many different architects worked in the city.

Book recommendation: "The Art of Racing in the Rain" by Garth Stein. I read a review of this in a weekly news magazine some time back. (I just looked in the book and the paperback came out in 2009, which is quite some time back.) The story line is very serious material, but interjected with a lot of light commentary by the writer/narrator, who is a dog. The story held me enough (and straightforwardly written) that I read it in two evenings on my trip to Tombstone. If you're into motorsports, it's probably even more interesting. It makes you wonder if dogs really do think this way. Funny side note, the character I'll call "evil teen girl" went to the same high school that my ex-wife went to.

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#88: October 22, 2024, 12:11:20 PM
Book recommendation: "The Art of Racing in the Rain" by Garth Stein. I read a review of this in a weekly news magazine some time back. (I just looked in the book and the paperback came out in 2009, which is quite some time back.) The story line is very serious material, but interjected with a lot of light commentary by the writer/narrator, who is a dog. The story held me enough (and straightforwardly written) that I read it in two evenings on my trip to Tombstone. If you're into motorsports, it's probably even more interesting. It makes you wonder if dogs really do think this way. Funny side note, the character I'll call "evil teen girl" went to the same high school that my ex-wife went to.

I forgot to mention that there may be some philosophical musings useful to the LBS in here as well.  One from the racing aspect was that you can only control how YOU drive, not how the other drivers do.
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#89: June 22, 2025, 10:20:25 PM
Hello, everybody!

As usual, it's been a while. I've been reading everyone's posts, but by the time I get to them I usually don't have too much to add. But, I'm thinking of all of you.

Given my last post was after visiting Tombstone, I suppose it's fitting that I just got back from a trip to Lincoln, NM and the surroundings. Maybe you haven't heard of the Lincoln County Wars, or Dolan and Tunstall, but you've probably heard of Billy the Kid. This is where it all (mostly) went down. Ex-wife and I went to Ft. Sumner early after moving here, site of Billy the Kid's grave and a decent museum, so I'm glad I finally made it to Lincoln. Most of the buildings are from 1850-1880; a couple that moved there in the 1960s(?) started the preservation efforts. There are still a few private residences in the town too. The Tunstall Store was bought by the state in 1957, and they kept everything on the shelves as they were at that time. Lincoln is a farm and ranch community so the items in the store looked more like early 1900s than what you'd expect for the late 1950s. I also visited Ft. Stanton, which started as an Army outpost in Mescalero Apache territory, but is probably better know as a tuberculosis hospital in the early 1900s. And the Smokey Bear museum in Capitan. Smokey Bear as a character was created in 1944, but the first live Smokey was a bear cub rescued from a forest fire in this area in 1950. His grave is on the museum grounds.

It was hotter than I had hoped for, so even though I was staying in a little resort town (Ruidoso), I wound up just eating dinner and then crashing at the hotel both nights. The town was full of Texans, too. (Texans hate New Mexico, but that doesn't stop them from coming here in the summer to cool off. I thought they mostly went up north, I wasn't expecting them down there.)

Work has been alright. Our program is gaining increased interest, but my role is not terribly exciting, so I don't get many responses to my emails. Everybody wants to design new stuff, and few people want to support testing. I'm also the chief challenge coin designer (if you're familiar with those), and the one I came up with for this program is a huge hit. Unfortunately, as the self-appointed morale officer, I don't think people take me seriously. But, we'll see how it goes.

Although I'm hoping to take more road trips (when it cools off again), I've been doing a lot of work around the house. Consequently, as soon as something heals I manage to injure something else. I mashed my finger under a log when taking a tree down, caught the tip of my thumb in a mini table saw, and most recently got bursitis in one of my elbows. I'm surprised it happened now considering I've been doing the same kind of work for the past year, but I guess that's a joy of getting older. Too much hoeing, I suppose. (Not the fun kind, just the moving dirt kind.) In addition to the half-dead Mimosa tree that I had to remove for my shed, I had two Siberian Elms in my yard. These grow really well in this area, but are non-native and considered noxious in NM. (Apparently they were brought in by a mayor in the 1950s for street medians.) I mashed my finger taking the big (30-40') one down at the back of the yard, which I replaced with an Austrian black pine. I trimmed back the smaller one closer to the house to make it easier to take down later, and planted about six fruit trees. I'll keep trimming the elm back each year until the fruit trees are more established, and then take down the elm for good.

My back yard collects a lot of water in heavy rains; I put drains in on both sides of the house, and carved one swale to divert water to a low spot in the back (which already turns into a mini pond in heavy rains), but also realized that I can carve shallow depressions into the dirt to hold water near the plants as well. We're supposed to get rain this week, so I'll be able to see how the first one is going and dig it out further, and then I'll put gravel on top.

I'm sure there's more but tomorrow is a work day... I hope you're all taking care of yourselves!

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