Skip to main content

Author Topic: Off-Topic Location, Location, Location

F
  • *
  • Trial Subscriber
  • Full Member
  • Posts: 118
Off-Topic Location, Location, Location
OP: October 14, 2024, 08:55:18 AM
Hi Team,

I wanted to open the floor and see if anyone would like to share where they are based out of? I can understand the potential hesitancy, though wanted to see if perhaps there would be an opportunity to meet up with local LBSs to maybe grab a coffee and just chat it out. It’s hard to find folks who get in RL and this forum is amazing, so I figured why not tap into this amazing pool of individuals?

I’m based in the West Coast of the USA. How about you?
  • Logged
“If your nerve deny you— Go above your nerve”
-Emily d!ckinson

“I thought my fire was out,
 and stirred the ashes…
 I burnt my fingers.”
-Antonio Machado

  • *****
  • Hero Member
  • Posts: 12740
  • Gender: Female
Location, Location, Location
#1: October 14, 2024, 11:20:38 AM
Suffolk coast in the east of the UK
  • Logged
T: 18  M: 12 (at BD) No kids.
H diagnosed with severe depression Oct 15. BD May 16. OW since April 16, maybe earlier. Silent vanisher mostly.
Divorced April 18. XH married ow 6 weeks later.


"Option A is not available so I need to kick the s**t out of Option B" Sheryl Sandberg

B
  • ****
  • Sr. Member
  • Posts: 418
  • Gender: Male
Location, Location, Location
#2: October 14, 2024, 05:03:38 PM
North London, unfortunately nowhere near the west coast Flummoxed!
  • Logged

F
  • ****
  • Sr. Member
  • Posts: 285
  • Gender: Male
  • Be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves
Location, Location, Location
#3: October 14, 2024, 11:50:40 PM
Iam sorry I am also in East, south east of France actually  ;D

A very nice place for holidays, and I would be glad to welcome a gathering of LBS in my home one day.
  • Logged
M 45, W43. Married 17 years, together 20
3 children D17, D15, S6
OM discovered Dec 22, BD Jan 23 (few days after)
W living at home 16 mths post BD, then keeps moving in & out "for work" in foreign country.
Aimer, c'est donner sans attendre de retour et tout acte est prière, s'il est don de soi (Antoine de Saint Exupéry)
Love means to give without expecting return, and every act is a prayer if it is a self-gift. (thanks OffRoad !)

  • *
  • Mentor
  • Hero Member
  • Posts: 4540
  • Gender: Female
Location, Location, Location
#4: October 15, 2024, 12:55:35 AM
Southern CA, USA.
  • Logged
When life gives you lemons, make SALSA!

H
  • ****
  • Sr. Member
  • Posts: 429
  • Gender: Male
Location, Location, Location
#5: October 15, 2024, 01:51:34 AM
Newcastle, Australia.

MLC knows no geographic boundary.

  • Logged

B
  • *
  • Stand Up and THRIVE!
  • Sr. Member
  • Posts: 324
  • Gender: Male
Re: Location, Location, Location
#6: October 15, 2024, 04:46:38 AM
Boston Ma USA
  • Logged
BD 3/23
Standing
W Still at Home
Me-48
W-47
S-16
S-19

C
  • *
  • Newbie
  • Posts: 4
  • Gender: Female
Location, Location, Location
#7: October 15, 2024, 05:01:04 AM
Montréal, Québec, Canada
  • Logged

  • *****
  • Hero Member
  • Posts: 642
  • Gender: Female
Location, Location, Location
#8: October 19, 2024, 10:12:03 AM
Switzerland
  • Logged
Me 43 at BD
H    45 at BD
Married 11 yrs at BD, no kids,
BD May 2019 (I moved out Nov 2019)
EA or PA with ex gf (not sure), H spent 3 nights with the hoe during our vacation in July 2019, it was a friendly encounter according to H
H wanted D April 2020 seeing suspected OW2 (divorced with two kids) and 2 years older than him, H didn’t file the D
Clinging boomerang
6/21 H moved in with me; kicked him out 01/22
H turned into a vanisher, wants a Divorce, OW 3 (16 years younger and extreme sporty)
14.11.22 Divorce final, I'm done

H
  • *****
  • Hero Member
  • Posts: 505
  • Gender: Male
Location, Location, Location
#9: October 19, 2024, 09:21:48 PM
Dallas, TX, USA
  • Logged
M - 49
Divorced 2.5 years
2 kids
BD - July 2020
XW Left Home - January 2021
XW Filed for D - May 2021
D Final - Jan 2022

 

Legal Disclaimer

The information contained within The Hero's Spouse website family (www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com, http://theherosspouse.com and associated subdomains), (collectively 'website') is provided as general information and is not intended to be a substitute for professional legal, medical or mental health advice or treatment for specific medical conditions. The Hero's Spouse cannot be held responsible for the use of the information provided. The Hero's Spouse recommends that you consult a trained medical or mental health professional before making any decision regarding treatment of yourself or others. The Hero's Spouse recommends that you consult a legal professional for specific legal advice.

Any information, stories, examples, articles, or testimonials on this website do not constitute a guarantee, or prediction regarding the outcome of an individual situation. Reading and/or posting at this website does not constitute a professional relationship between you and the website author, volunteer moderators or mentors or other community members. The moderators and mentors are peer-volunteers, and not functioning in a professional capacity and are therefore offering support and advice based solely upon their own experience and not upon legal, medical, or mental health training.