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My Story Picking up the pieces of my broken heart
#80: September 08, 2025, 01:38:17 AM
Quote from: Arcticfox on September 08, 2025, 01:25:30 AM
I heard there is a thread for the stupid reasons MLC’ers dump their spouses, well my H says i didn’t go dancing with him (years ago) and sometimes i have farted when sitting next to him on the couch. Okay then? Maybe he could have let me know back then when these things happened that they are a deal breaker for him!

Here is the last version. In the first post, there is a link to the earlier thread as well... .

https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11601.msg804421#new
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Atomic BD - 13 Dec 2015
House sold & separated - Mar 2016
Divorce final 30 August 2019
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Re: Picking up the pieces of my broken heart
#81: September 08, 2025, 06:33:34 AM
You are so honest, authentic, raw and vulnerable. While that invites being hurt more and deeper, in the end I think it allows you to heal on your journey whereas the MLCer puts their pain in a bubble/cyst and just allows it to fester or grow. I guess you could say it´s an emotional abscess. You either lance it or get sepsis. Maybe the best outcome of continued MC is that he starts individual sessions.
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