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#20: July 06, 2011, 07:14:18 PM
LMM, I think you should restrict your H's tv time.  No more Sons of Anarchy, no Old Dogs, no Pagan Motorcycle Gang documentaries.  Does he ride them all, or does he just sit on one of them pretending he is in a gang with invisible members? Just wondering.
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Re: Stupid stuff our MLCers buy
#21: July 06, 2011, 07:20:06 PM
Learning,

   You got me.  I have no idea.........what in the world he's thinking.......oh, right........he's not!  He currently lives in an apartment so I'm sure he's had to "rent" an extra garage.  It's just so amazing to me.  I also found out from the same friend/coworker of his that he's been through two more women.  He dumped one fairly quick and is now involved with another one at the moment.  So, this makes the 4th one in less than two years........as far as I know.  So, maybe it's a contest between motors and women!  Go figure.  I'm truly disgusted.  I've got to take a few steps back to find my place of calm and peace again.
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Re: Stupid stuff our MLCers buy
#22: July 06, 2011, 07:22:01 PM
ut oh,
If I count kids motorcycles, I've got 6 and enough parts for one more. :o
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Re: Stupid stuff our MLCers buy
#23: July 06, 2011, 07:25:04 PM
LMM,  Zsa Zsa Gabor had a joke saying "I am a wonderful housekeeper, whenever I divorce a man, I keep his house." Maybe that's what he's doing with the motorcycles.  He gets the OW's bike everytime he dumps one. ;D ;D
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Re: Stupid stuff our MLCers buy
#24: July 06, 2011, 07:26:51 PM
My H left his first marriage with very little.  I knew he could play drums so I suggested when we sell MY house and by a new family home that we buy him a kit if the house sold for over an agreed amount.  I felt sorry for him that he had to sell his previous kit.  AAGH what a bad move that was.
He's been upgrading and buying accessories ever since.  I felt like the drums and his bands (he never stuck it out long enough to be successful with one) were always ahead of the kids and I.  One time when I expressed my concern at him wanting yet another kit, he told me I was selfish!  I don't know what he's bought since he's left but I as he doesn't have much room to store anything, I think it's more like stuff on OW such as a romantice weekend away (up the road from where he took me a couple of months earlier!   SICK).
He did suggest we buy a Voyager as we needed a bigger car so I found one at a good price and had the loan organised while he knew all along he would be leaving.  It was meant to be a work car for him during the week so we could claim tax deductions as money was tight but the kids were growing.  We picked it up after he dropped the bomb so I made him put the car in his name and be stuck with selling it again.  No use for a 7 seater now!  He said he wanmted me to have a nice car..SICK.  Well it's still not sold, so I guess that will be his when we agree on property settlement and he can be stuck with it instead of cash  HA HA
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Re: Stupid stuff our MLCers buy
#25: July 06, 2011, 07:28:34 PM
Good one, Learning.  You made me laugh.

Okay, Rebel, you are an exception........your off the hook!
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Re: Stupid stuff our MLCers buy
#26: July 06, 2011, 07:31:22 PM
LMM - my H would be so jealous - SIX motorcycles ......
I hear through the grapevine, that it's the OW's dream to get her motorcycle license one day.  It's all so tweenie - let me take on my boyfriend's passions, and make them mine.  We are SOUL MATES!!  Your wife is mean, she doesn't like motorbikes!

RY - I think you're safe.  Your sanity is intact, and the kids bikes are simply not in the same category .........
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