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What is the age difference between your WAS and the Affair Partner?

Yes, more than 11 years apart in age
16 (53.3%)
Don't know for sure
0 (0%)
No, less than 11 years apart in age
14 (46.7%)

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MLC Monster Is/Was it a May-December affair?
OP: August 12, 2011, 07:59:36 AM
Prevailing wisdom say this is the definition of the typical age difference.
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« Last Edit: August 12, 2011, 08:23:07 AM by justasking »
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Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
#1: August 12, 2011, 08:22:34 AM
Sorry Standing I am confused. Are you asking about the different in age between the MLCer and spouse or the MLCer and OW/OM?
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Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
#2: August 12, 2011, 08:23:57 AM
I'm asking about the age difference between the WAS and the affair partner.
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Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
#3: August 12, 2011, 08:32:17 AM
Thanks for clarifying that I will put my vote in now.

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Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
#4: August 12, 2011, 09:01:57 AM
Changed one possibly answer to Don't know for Sure because that is a true possibility. Also the chances that a responder would answer 11 years is highly unlikely. That would mean that they have the same birthday, I suppose.
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Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
#5: August 12, 2011, 10:04:23 AM
Oops, I voted wrong.  There is 20 years difference between my H and his affair partner.  Don't know if someone can change that for me.  ;D

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Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
#6: August 12, 2011, 10:11:05 AM
Quote from: heartbroken on August 12, 2011, 10:04:23 AM
Oops, I voted wrong.  There is 20 years difference between my H and his affair partner.  Don't know if someone can change that for me.  ;D

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Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
#7: August 12, 2011, 10:16:34 AM

ok, thanks for trying.
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Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
#8: August 12, 2011, 05:02:29 PM
My H had affairs (PA or EA - don't know) with his ex-wife and ex high school girlfriend.

Both are his age - 7 years older than me.

Crazy huh?

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Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
#9: August 13, 2011, 04:06:32 AM
My ex's OW is an old girlfriend from art college and is two years older than him - I'm six years younger than him.  Makes you feel good being left for an older woman!
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