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#10: December 31, 2011, 12:27:29 PM
my first without my h and I look back on last years NYE and things were brewing even the (bd in early Feb)
I take comfort form Voyager's story. It is why I'm standing.... not in hope but because. well you all know why.

Tonight I'm with my D's (S20 is with friends) and we will go to a neighbours then be here. Tomorrow morning I will celebrate the new year with other buddhists and then going out with D's for lunch.
I have never been so busy ;P

I feel emotional tonight. but look forward. 2011 was in many ways the MOSt amazing year. I thought I was broken, but I was broken open and achieved things beyond my wildest dreams despite being in emotional turmoil for most of it. Look forward, what has happened is past.
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Re: So What Are Your NYE/NYD plans?
#11: December 31, 2011, 12:41:40 PM
I have made some snacks for the kids and thier friends that will be stopping by. I've never been a big NYE person. It's just another day. Can't tell you the last time I saw the ball drop.

To be honest, I can't wait until 2011 is over. 2012, a positive number and hopefully positive changes.

Be safe everyone!

Hugs,
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Re: So What Are Your NYE/NYD plans?
#12: December 31, 2011, 01:04:24 PM
This is my first Hogmanay without my H as BD was only mid October. I have no idea what he will be doing nor do I (suprisingly) really care. I am going to have a great time! Tonight my D's and I are going to see the Stonehaven Fireballs which should be good as we have never been before. Tomorrow morning at 10am I am taking part in a Loony Dook which basically invloves me and about 300 other mad folks swimming in water barely above freezing. It's supposed to be an opportunity to wash away the old and bring in the new which is how I intend to live my life in 2012. My D's, my mum and dad and my sis and her boyfriend and all coming to cheer me on. Then it's all back to my folks as I believe they are in posession of the world's largest steak pie ;o) and need us all to help demolish it!

For 2012 I wish all the best for us LBS's and enlightenment for our spouses in MLC. I am entering 2012 with a positive frame of mind that to be honest has come with help from everyone on here. I wish that were the case for everyone here. Big hugs tonight to everyone on here that needs them. You are wonderful people!

Much love, TE
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