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#30: February 04, 2012, 12:59:51 PM
I am very much looking forward to this  :D
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Re: LBS Meetup :-)
#31: February 05, 2012, 03:02:55 AM
I live 55 miles from Leeds - so if anyone is thinking they don't have the cash to stay in a hotel I have 4 spare bedrooms if anyone wants to crash over and I'll drive to the big meet up! I do a good breakfast.......

These get togethers are so therapeutic and healing.

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Re: LBS Meetup :-)
#32: February 05, 2012, 03:36:28 AM
Well, this just caught my eye, so you can count me in!
thank Foxy for starting this

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#33: February 05, 2012, 03:38:16 AM
I am hoping I can come too - it is always hard to schedule around school and kids, but I will try!!!
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Re: LBS Meetup :-)
#34: February 05, 2012, 08:43:16 AM
Wish that I could be there.... :'(

I guess I will have to be there in spirit.....or Skype - whichever is working at the time.

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#35: February 05, 2012, 09:24:25 AM
I will be there in spirit too... I definitely would have jumped on that bed and breakfast at your place Moving Forward...

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Re: LBS Meetup :-)
#36: February 05, 2012, 09:32:32 AM
Hey guys,

This is great!  Skype, text or in person!  All are welcome and I can't wait!!!!  Emails coming your way this week.

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#37: February 06, 2012, 11:18:45 AM
Sorry Fox i will be there if I am not away on Holiday (sometimes go away in May) but not far for me so n probs will let you know nearer the time  :)
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#38: February 07, 2012, 01:27:22 PM
Hi Foxberry

Not sure yet how my work pattern will work out.  Hopefully I can let you know nearer the time.

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#39: February 28, 2012, 11:06:53 AM
Hello everyone,

Sorry I haven't posted before now, but I've been poorly....dreaded lurgy....urghh, anyway all well again now!  I have taken everyone's details from the Forum now, who have expressed an interest in the Leeds Event.  I will be sending out a group email shortly with some suggestions on accommodation.  If anyone else is interested and hasn't let me know, then please PM me and I can add you to the Distribution List.

I wish you all good health, peace and happiness as we approach the longer days and the promise of Spring is just around the corner  ;)

With love and hugs
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