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Off-Topic The Love Calculator
OP: April 24, 2012, 12:54:58 PM
http://www.lovecalculator.com/

Finally, a scientific way to determine whether you should keep standing or give up!

Forget the articles!  Counseling shmounseling!

http://www.lovecalculator.com/

I guess it's time for me to end my stand because I typed in mine and my H's first & last names, as directed, and it was calculated our chance of a relationship is only...
1%
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Re: The Love Calculator
#1: April 24, 2012, 12:57:03 PM

OMG just what I needed. Now I will have all of my answers. Ha ha. Let me go see what it says.

26%
"The chance of a relationship working out between e & j is not very big, but a relationship is very well possible, if the two of you really want it to, and are prepared to make some sacrifices for it. You'll have to spend a lot of quality time together. You must be aware of the fact that this relationship might not work out at all, no matter how much time you invest in it."

Watch it be like 80% o.k. go for their names.

Nope. 24% for H & Op.
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Re: The Love Calculator
#2: April 24, 2012, 12:59:04 PM
Hahahahaha!!!!  It said me and H = 96% chance, H and OW = 15% chance  ;D ;D ;D ;D

Thanks for the laugh, this is great!
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Re: The Love Calculator
#3: April 24, 2012, 01:02:47 PM
OK, I'll play. :)

My and my wife: 82% (could having the same last name be a factor? :P)
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Re: The Love Calculator
#4: April 24, 2012, 01:03:30 PM
83% is the number I get. Hmmmmm, just keep standing...
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Re: The Love Calculator
#5: April 24, 2012, 01:09:09 PM
Well, apparently I might as well give up as my ex and I have only a 16% chance of a good relationship, whereas he and OW are 79% likely to have a good relationship.

I then tried him and his ex-wife (they really hate each other).  They are 85% likely to have a good relationship, so I think it may be back to the drawing board for Dr Love! ::)
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Re: The Love Calculator
#6: April 24, 2012, 01:11:18 PM
OK, I'll play. :)

My and my wife: 82% (could having the same last name be a factor? :P)

No, because I only get 1%.  When I switch to my maiden name, it goes up to 29%.

According to ol' Dr Love I doomed my relationship chances by 28% when I married.
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Re: The Love Calculator
#7: April 24, 2012, 01:19:50 PM
Depending on the combination of names I put in, I get anywhere from 1% - 52%!  So regardless not great.  I tried full name (using first, middle, last) with maiden name and then without middle names, etc. 

Guess I'm doomed!
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Re: The Love Calculator
#8: April 24, 2012, 01:29:32 PM
I got 82%! But it said I needed to work on my relationship!
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Re: The Love Calculator
#9: April 24, 2012, 01:29:58 PM
Okay, I just "played".  Me and my ex H - 72%.  Him and his other two OW's both in 30% range.  Even put his first ex wife's name in and got 52% .  So he and I got the highest score.  Now if he will just pay attention.  Ha, ha.  Adding some much needed fun to all this is healthy.
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