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#10: May 08, 2013, 07:19:43 PM
  LBS script...
   Where's my furniture, husband and life?
   Oh, it's over at OWs house. ::)
   Will it be back?  Was it something I said?
   Maybe it was the bagged lettuce? ???
   Waaaaaaah! I love him.
   Arrrgh! I Hate him!
   Should I send an anniversary card? Should I call a lawyer?
   I'll just worry about me and my kids and watch while his fake life falls apart.  No worries.  ;)
   Hey who's texting at 2am?  and WHY?
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Re: LBS Script
#11: May 08, 2013, 10:39:20 PM
Should I see him?

Should I answer the phone, text, email?

Should I tell his d her father is an ___________?
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Re: LBS Script
#12: May 08, 2013, 11:48:11 PM
I know I deserve better than this... Who the feck does he think he is!
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Re: LBS Script
#13: May 09, 2013, 12:24:57 AM
Was it all a lie?  Has he lost his mind?  Have *I* lost *my* mind?!

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Re: LBS Script
#14: May 09, 2013, 01:00:51 AM
He is not the ONLY man in the world, but I love the idiot!  :P
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Re: LBS Script
#15: May 09, 2013, 07:13:00 AM
Did somebody say Where's Wed?

Oh, I can most definitely add to this.  I am an expert now, ya know.  I went through living with an MLCer for a long time, being separated from him and finally divorced from him.  He's been both a low-energy and high-energy MLCer.  He's been a Clinger, and a Vanisher, and I guess some stuff in between.  So here is what I have been able to determine about how MLC got going:

Somehow, this [insert profanity here] button in my H's [insert profanity here] brain got pushed



and my H lost his mind.  He immediately went overboard with his cell phone usage,



turned into a 14-year-old girl on certain social media sites,



got to feeling super-confident and invincible with all of his new-found popularity



and decided that being married to a loser like me was quite the embarrassment.



So what script did I follow to weather the craziness?  At the beginning, I was too emotional to say much that made any sense.



Then I resolved to try living a heathier life and eating better, for me.



I decided NO CONTACT was the way to go.



NO CONTACT and NO CYBERSTALKING either.  Account deletion, hooray!!



I gently put his things aside and after a time, when I could be calm and composed about it all, requested that he remove them.



It's only now I've begun to realize how much of dealing with MLC is simply... waiting.



So that's it.  That's been my experience.  For you male LBS out there, I suspect that your interactions may have been different.

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Re: LBS Script
#16: May 09, 2013, 07:26:41 AM
Hey Wed,

that was absolutely brilliant. I haven't laughed so much in ages.

I've bookmarked it so that I can keep enjoying it, especially if I get an off day.

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Re: LBS Script
#17: May 09, 2013, 07:31:03 AM
Aren't you soooo smart Wed2Him4ever???LOL, that was a perfect show!
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Re: LBS Script
#18: May 09, 2013, 07:36:35 AM
HaHaHaHaHaHa!!  Oh so true :)
Thank you all for the morning smile!!
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Re: LBS Script
#19: May 09, 2013, 07:40:18 AM
LOVED IT!!!!
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