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#40: October 29, 2012, 03:36:59 PM
No word or concern from H. I'm 19 mos BD, Going on11 mos almost since he walked out.  It's real trip, how they can just walk away, no care or concern.  It's like we never existed, he is dead or something.  That is the way I have begun to look at it. I don't consider myself married right now. To what???  I think crises, natural disasters make us feel more vulnerable, but also help us see what is really important and the reality of it all. 

KTF,

I'm on same timeline as you. Know EXACTLY what you mean. Astonishing. I just told my friend who knows H that I can accept his need to deal with his FOO issues. Cannot fathom the cruelty though. Astonishing.

Storm not too bad here in NYC. My sister in Ct just lost power. And my lights just flickered!

Keeping cozy with my 2 cats!

Hugs to all my fellow LBS!

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Re: To All Posters Regarding Hurricane Sandy
#41: October 29, 2012, 05:20:53 PM
Take care, all you easterners- we are holding good thoughts for you!
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Re: To All Posters Regarding Hurricane Sandy
#42: October 29, 2012, 05:47:49 PM
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I have tied the patio furniture together and the winds are blowing the grass FLAT.
Same here FTT. I also lashed down the gas grill.  I can hear the winds roaring as I type. I just took a really hot long shower to reduce stress and because I don't know how long we'll have power (and a water heater).  I hope I am not forced to eat all the Halloween trick-or-treat candy to survive. LOL! ;D

Stay safe all!
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Re: To All Posters Regarding Hurricane Sandy
#43: October 29, 2012, 06:01:12 PM
Anyone in/near NYC??  My S18 goes to NYU and his last text to me said that the power just went out in his dorm.  He is in Greenwich Village/Washington Square Park.  I am worried about him.  Asking for prayers for his protection and safety and everyone on the forum as well who is in the line of fire of this storm.
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Re: To All Posters Regarding Hurricane Sandy
#44: October 29, 2012, 06:04:35 PM
CfL, I have a friend on FB in NYC who just posted that Con Edison just shut the power out intentionally, so he may have been part of that.  Prayers going up for all! 
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Re: To All Posters Regarding Hurricane Sandy
#45: October 29, 2012, 07:44:07 PM
Prayers going out to all those on the East coast.  Amen
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Re: To All Posters Regarding Hurricane Sandy
#46: October 30, 2012, 12:20:53 PM
I just read on another thread that Learning was okay but has no power.

How are the rest of you east coasters?
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Re: To All Posters Regarding Hurricane Sandy
#47: October 30, 2012, 12:23:50 PM
I spoke to FTT earlier... she is ok but also doesn't have power.
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Re: To All Posters Regarding Hurricane Sandy
#48: October 30, 2012, 12:24:52 PM
What about Wondering?
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Re: To All Posters Regarding Hurricane Sandy
#49: October 30, 2012, 12:33:23 PM
I will ask learning about wondering... I don't have her number. I spoke to mamma... her and the girls Are ok. she's at work now... she spoke with LG... she doesn't have power either.
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5/31/10 I miscarried our baby
10/1/10 H moved in with OW
10/13/10 I filed for D
I/5/11 H started to see me several times a week.
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