No word or concern from H. I'm 19 mos BD, Going on11 mos almost since he walked out. It's real trip, how they can just walk away, no care or concern. It's like we never existed, he is dead or something. That is the way I have begun to look at it. I don't consider myself married right now. To what??? I think crises, natural disasters make us feel more vulnerable, but also help us see what is really important and the reality of it all.
KTF,
I'm on same timeline as you. Know EXACTLY what you mean. Astonishing. I just told my friend who knows H that I can accept his need to deal with his FOO issues. Cannot fathom the cruelty though. Astonishing.
Storm not too bad here in NYC. My sister in Ct just lost power. And my lights just flickered!
Keeping cozy with my 2 cats!
Hugs to all my fellow LBS!
Bird
Everything will work out ok in the end. If it doesn't, it's not the end.