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#60: August 28, 2011, 06:44:31 PM
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Re: StillStanding's Messages
#61: August 28, 2011, 07:14:30 PM
Thank you for this thread StillStanding.  It really helps to strengthen me when I need it most.

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Re: StillStanding's Messages
#62: August 28, 2011, 07:54:45 PM
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"Counting days won't buy us years" —Wings by HAERTS
"Forgiveness means giving up all hope for a better past."  —Lily Tomlin
"When we commit to our lovers, we implicitly promise to forgive them. There is no other way we can live with someone for better or worse or until death do us part." —Dr. Frederic Luskin
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Re: StillStanding's Messages
#63: September 05, 2011, 02:30:37 PM
Hello all,
This has just popped up into my e-mail Inbox and I thought I'd share it with everyone here - i really enjoyed it,

 
http://www.theinterviewwithgod.com/popup-frame.html

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Re: StillStanding's Messages
#64: September 06, 2011, 08:04:11 AM
This is the understatement of the year:
http://twitter.com/DivorceBusting/statuses/111085011083591680

Quote from: Michele Weiner-Davis
It's natural for you to take your husband's / wife's mid-life crisis personally. Don't. It is likely being triggered by something else.
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"Counting days won't buy us years" —Wings by HAERTS
"Forgiveness means giving up all hope for a better past."  —Lily Tomlin
"When we commit to our lovers, we implicitly promise to forgive them. There is no other way we can live with someone for better or worse or until death do us part." —Dr. Frederic Luskin
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#65: September 06, 2011, 12:16:43 PM
Another good MLC-related tweet:
http://twitter.com/DivorceBusting/statuses/111154221851754496

Quote from: Michele Weiner-Davis
Don't debate your spouse over the legitimacy of their feelings during their mid-life crisis. This often results in even more polarization.
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"Counting days won't buy us years" —Wings by HAERTS
"Forgiveness means giving up all hope for a better past."  —Lily Tomlin
"When we commit to our lovers, we implicitly promise to forgive them. There is no other way we can live with someone for better or worse or until death do us part." —Dr. Frederic Luskin
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Re: StillStanding's Messages
#66: September 06, 2011, 03:56:57 PM
And the final one in the series:
http://twitter.com/DivorceBusting/statuses/111207063727771649

Quote from: Michele Weiner-Davis
Have faith that your spouse will get through his/her mid-life crisis. It may be hard, but act as if life will go back to normal soon.
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"Counting days won't buy us years" —Wings by HAERTS
"Forgiveness means giving up all hope for a better past."  —Lily Tomlin
"When we commit to our lovers, we implicitly promise to forgive them. There is no other way we can live with someone for better or worse or until death do us part." —Dr. Frederic Luskin
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Re: StillStanding's Messages
#67: September 06, 2011, 06:48:47 PM
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"Counting days won't buy us years" —Wings by HAERTS
"Forgiveness means giving up all hope for a better past."  —Lily Tomlin
"When we commit to our lovers, we implicitly promise to forgive them. There is no other way we can live with someone for better or worse or until death do us part." —Dr. Frederic Luskin
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Re: StillStanding's Messages
#68: September 13, 2011, 10:28:32 AM
http://twitter.com/DivorceBusting/statuses/113660794192932865
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For those of who are "fix it addicts" in your relationship, it's possible that you are making matters worse. Next time, do nothing.
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"Counting days won't buy us years" —Wings by HAERTS
"Forgiveness means giving up all hope for a better past."  —Lily Tomlin
"When we commit to our lovers, we implicitly promise to forgive them. There is no other way we can live with someone for better or worse or until death do us part." —Dr. Frederic Luskin
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Re: StillStanding's Messages
#69: September 15, 2011, 09:29:17 AM
http://twitter.com/DivorceBusting/statuses/114371691685216257
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Although VERY difficult, your marriage is more likely to survive during an affair if you give your spouse space.
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Every day is another chance to get it right.
http://www.vachss.com/mission/behavior.html

"Counting days won't buy us years" —Wings by HAERTS
"Forgiveness means giving up all hope for a better past."  —Lily Tomlin
"When we commit to our lovers, we implicitly promise to forgive them. There is no other way we can live with someone for better or worse or until death do us part." —Dr. Frederic Luskin
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