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#10: May 23, 2013, 01:34:09 PM
At BD I reminded my H that we had promised each other before we got married that divorce was NEVER going to be an option.

He said "I know, but this is different."  :o :o :o :o

(You can't make this up......)
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Re: MLC script III
#11: May 23, 2013, 02:45:24 PM
That would be like my H saying that we needed to tell our D that relationship issues or problems could always be talked through.....   
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Re: MLC script III
#12: May 23, 2013, 04:05:48 PM
My H offered to give me some tips on online dating, since that's how he'd found OW.  But, since OW turned out to be a Catfish I'm glad I declined the offer  ;D
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Re: MLC script III
#13: May 23, 2013, 04:14:55 PM
We have a rental property two doors away... It was empty at the time H was hitting Rick bottom with huge anxiety attacks...
He said, I guess that wouldn't work. 
Me: what?
H: if I moved into the rental
me: you mean with OW? 
H: yes. 
Me:  what, would we all have French toast together on Saturday morning?
H: no, I guess that wouldn't work...

Trying to keep a foot in both relationships. Ridiculous :/
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Re: MLC script III
#14: May 24, 2013, 08:20:26 AM
Oh! I got one! An "original" from H's script.

H: At least you have the kids. I have no one except her (ow) to talk to about my problems.

Yea...because I share our marital problems and concerns with our young kids. He's the one that isolated himself from his friends and family.


Some of these are hilarious. I couldn't stop laughing about "you controlled me with your face." Hahaha! I think we'd like that superpower.

I've heard much of the script... mlc, no doubt!
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Re: MLC script III
#15: May 24, 2013, 03:19:44 PM
More MLC script:

I need to start my life over

I am never returning

I feel like I am homeless...

(Well yes I suppose if you abandon your family you are homeless...)
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Re: MLC script III
#16: May 24, 2013, 03:24:09 PM
Yeah, I got "I feel like I have no home" before he even left.  Since we were behind on mortgage payments, it was nearly truth! 
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#17: May 24, 2013, 08:59:12 PM
Did anyone add this one yet.  I know it's a favourite:

Just draw a line & move on
.  I go 'huh' :o :o ?  [This 2 weeks after he moved, 4 months after BD].  Married 35 y, tog. 37
 
You just draw a line & move on.
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Re: MLC script III
#18: May 24, 2013, 09:19:55 PM
XW WAS homeless when she left as the "mansion in the ghetto" wasn't yet livable and she had to move into her old bedroom at her parents' house.  Somehow, she managed to save no money in the six weeks she stayed there......

And moving two doors down?  Why not just rent a duplex and live next door to each other?  Maybe even have an interior door leading from one side to the other.  LOL
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Re: MLC script III
#19: May 24, 2013, 10:15:29 PM
Yeah, I got "I feel like I have no home" before he even left. 

Wow! i got this exact same thing except just after BD. He says "i feel like i have no home"... Weird ???
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