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#101: September 25, 2014, 07:14:05 AM
WOW Albatross :):)
so true!
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#104: October 01, 2014, 07:57:06 AM
Much truth Albatross. This is why we get on our journey and make ourselves better people.
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#105: October 01, 2014, 10:15:05 AM
Agreed! Positive thinking and optimism yield positive views on ANY outcome.....
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#106: October 13, 2014, 05:16:31 AM


This is exactly what happening with LBS and MLCer if LBS focus on self and make own life transformation. MLCers at beginning totally ignore You - separation phase, after BD they laugh on You, how he powerful and narcissistic they are, free and entitled to do whatever they want and how pathetic and weak LBS is begging them and pleading on them. Then coming period when they fight You ! They still want to convince self that they are right what they doing if they pull You again in own drama end misery, they want You bring down from Your high ground on their level, they are jealous on Your strength and devotion to light !
Then You win no matter what happens with Your marriage, because You become whole again, awaken and never felt better !
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#107: October 13, 2014, 06:21:53 AM
Love this Albatross. So very true!
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#108: October 13, 2014, 06:28:59 AM
one thing, that story about the two wolves, as good as it is, it isn't a native american story. it was written by billy graham, the preacher. it has no connection to any native tribe at all.

sorry i felt the need to clarify that, i am native and there is a lot of misinformation out there. it is a great analogy though just wish it was presented with the actual author.
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