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Author Topic: Meet-Up 2014 Meet up in United Kingdom (Midlands?? Stratford on Avon ??)

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I want to come but am awaiting a date for a major operation so am unable to confirm 100 percent.  Please keep me posted if I have not gone into hospital I will definitely come.
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BD March 2013
OW March 2014 shortly after I was diagnosed with cancer
Semi vanished, wanted space, monster
Wants to get on with his life - decree nisi October 2014
For me my love will never die. I have to believe he is ill I will not survive otherwise.  If I am not here I will never know if he would come back I need to know, so I will wait, hope and pray. I trust in God there is nothing I can do to change this. We cannot turn back time.......maybe one day, have faith.

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I'm in. Is it just us 4 now - Serenity, Venus, UK and Jos1?

If anyone else is still interested, let us know.

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Affair discovered; three moves out and three attempts at return during 2012, culminating in "I'm not coming back" statement. Then DIY separation agreement - Feb 14 - which I wouldn't sign. He moved in with OW in 10/14 and I heard little more. I instigated D in 2016.  He's still living in rental with OW and her D but the cracks are starting to appear.

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Hi I m pretty new on here , but would like to meet up .So what's the plan with accommodation etc are you booking overnights for 3rd may ? Where r u staying etc  thanks
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I'm interested but depends where.
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Please let me know if you decide to do this again as I would love to come and meet some people who have been through the same
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Has this been and gone? If not do let me know.
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Oh, shame, has this happened already? I'll be in the UK for a few months and I'd love to meet up!
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The original date has come and gone, I'm afraid.  But maybe the location wasn't right for most of the people?  Also, we didn't appoint an organiser, so nothing happened.

Shall we start over?  Work out where everyone is on the map?

 :) :)
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BD June 2011
Affair discovered; three moves out and three attempts at return during 2012, culminating in "I'm not coming back" statement. Then DIY separation agreement - Feb 14 - which I wouldn't sign. He moved in with OW in 10/14 and I heard little more. I instigated D in 2016.  He's still living in rental with OW and her D but the cracks are starting to appear.

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I think the location was good - lots of people around the midlands - and I did put up some room and pricing  info and PMd as many UK LBSers as I could and asked people to get back to me but only two did and then one of them dropped out.

So as no-one really posted on the thread I sort of gave up and then exam work took over as it does at this time of year in school.

Try for a weekend in the summer or maybe October half term? Cheaper then too.
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BD march 2013
Stay at home MLCer
OW for 3.5 years - finishing Autumn 2016
Reconnection started 2017.
Separated 2022 (my choice because he wanted to live alone) and yet fully reconnected seeing each other often.

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Yes ,
lets do this I m sure it would be funand beneficial.
 m in the central south of England but can travel !  :)
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