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How do we move this on from here?   I'm not sure which hotel is booked.  I'll PM S&D….
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Have we agreed dates yet.  I live on south coast near Portsmouth, Hampshire, does anyone else come from this area? 
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3rd May seems to suit most people.

I will be popping into the various cheaper hotels including the brand new travel lodges, premiers and Hiltons that are close by and very good value and see if I can negotiate a deal.
However I really do need ideas of numbers and if you are bringing someone so that tells me how many rooms etc....

PM me or on this thread please by Friday 21st Feb if possible
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S&D

I am coming - thanks for looking in to all the hotels S&D it is appreciated that you are organising this for us all.  I can't wait to meet everyone in person.

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Hello All
I'm new here but was told to check this site and boy I wish i'd known about it when my H walked out  :D !
I'm still trying to navigate around the site but saw your planned meet up and wondered if I dare ask to come along?
If it's ok maybe you could give the details and i'll see if I can work it in (2 small kids and recent dog acquisition to consider ) ;D
I didn't want to come out with full on story immediately as I don't trust myself to keep it short (always so much to say on the topic  :-[ ) But would love to chat with people who understand the emotions that just overtake your life when it deals out such a mind blowing journey!!!
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Phoenix S - I think the plan is for it to be the weekend of the 3rd May. Maybe message Songanddance as she's doing the organising for us :)
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3rd/4th May it is, Little Bee!  It will soon be time to regroup here and start firming up plans. S&D, if you drop by, could you remind us where we're at with the hotel situation. I have a memory like a sieve.  Sorry. Will help with any further planning as required. 

Would be lovely to meet lots of those who we know only through posts.  I bet we all get a BIG surprise when see one another! 
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Hello S&D and everyone,

3rd/4th May is looming.  What do we need to do to firm up plans and book rooms?  S&D can you remind us all please??

Would be great to meet everyone and put faces to names!

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