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Author Topic: Meet-Up 2014 Meet up in United Kingdom (Midlands?? Stratford on Avon ??)

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UKS, you've just sent me back to being 16 again and laugh out loud.  I went to Bilberry Hill with my school, age 16, about 30 of us, it was great fun, and I've never forgotten it.


Hey, what sort of spooky coincidence is that!?  And I just googled something silly like 'accommodation for lots of people near Birmingham, and Bilberry was just the first one that popped up'.  Sounds good though, and plenty of room for everyone, kids and all . . .    There are also some facilities I think (for the kids, LOL!) a few games/sports and stuff like that. I can see this being really fun. One BIG muck-in!

IATNTM - if you recognise your name  ;D  , where in UK are you (roughly)?  Didn't even know you were a UK-er before tonight. It's great to meet new local pals! 

Jos1 - as our Team Leader - let us know what you think of Bilberry. There may well be other options to consider, near Stratford or Brum.

It would be great to have a kids wing…  I think they'd have a BALL. 
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Sounding good people.  I shall take a closer look at this after Christmas.  Would love to meet you all.

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Make it a bank holiday and I'm in!  ;D
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Hi I am interested as well. Looks like I might be the only man but just do not all gang up on me :-\


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We promise, Braincell!    :D
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Just think how impressive you will look, surrounded by loads of gorgeous women. He he

Other men will wonder just how you do it!!!

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I am already seeing the movie of this….    :) :)  The whole crowd of us, down the local pub, getting puzzled looks from locals.
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lol UKS, I don't think you'll be the only man, I'm sure old pilot was interested as well. Local pub? I thought we'd be buying our own booze and holing up in the hotel/accommodation :) I've got experience of big gatherings, we have a big family gathering each year. That's even funnier when guests have the same surname :)
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HI All

Unsure that I have earned the title of Team Leader granted by UKS?  I just started the thread off lol!  However I like the look of the accommodation - it should work out cheaper and sounds like we can bring our own food and drink which will make it cheaper too!

I can't wait!!
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I can't wait either! We'll have to eat out though or get take aways, I'm not going on holiday to do any cooking ;)
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