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Meet-Up Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
OP: May 22, 2014, 03:28:00 PM
In the shadows of our friends "Across The Pond", in the "Land Down Under" and "Our Friends To The North" with their scheduled meet-ups, there has been preliminary interest in a possible meet-up in the Mid-Atlantic area (MD, DC, VA, or NC) and I wanted to get a gauge as to who might be interested in this.  No real details have been made at this point.  This is just to see if one would be well attended.  Any and all comments are welcome!
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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#1: May 22, 2014, 03:44:10 PM
I'm definitely interested although it might be difficult for me to go as far as DC or MD.  I've talked to a few others who would like to as well. 
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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#2: May 22, 2014, 03:54:26 PM
Me too!
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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#3: May 23, 2014, 04:25:25 AM
I live in New England so if it's in the fall/winter, I would love an excuse to head south!!
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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#4: May 23, 2014, 09:34:09 AM
Bipolared, bookwrmmom and nah, thanks for your response and once the interest is determined, I will try to figure out where and when this could happen.  I know in my case the fall and winter months are kind of busy for me as I travel much on the weekends.  But I am willing to be open to all opinions because I believe this will be beneficial for everyone, regardless of time or place.  I am open to any suggestions of place and/or date.  Feel free to make suggestions.  Take care and have a great holiday weekend!
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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#5: May 24, 2014, 02:15:05 PM
You can count me as interested! I am a beach bum so any nice beach will do, but otherwise not too picky.

Would prefer to be able to drive if this is a weekend thing so VA would be my limit of advance....NC would be great as I use to live in that state!


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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#6: May 24, 2014, 02:34:37 PM
Outer Banks, Virginia Beach,  Wilmington,  Atlantic Beach are but a few of my suggestions. Also we could consider something off the I-95 corridor for convenience, just not as nice as the beaches.
I don't mind sharing a room with one of the ladies to split hotel expenses, I am a quiet roommate .....unless you want to talk and then it is game on  ;D
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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#7: May 24, 2014, 03:07:48 PM
Depending upon when and where I might be interested in joining.

Would you like for this to be moved up to the top where the other meetups are listed? That way it will not get lost in the shuffle.

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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#8: May 24, 2014, 03:24:34 PM
Xyzcf Imdo believe that is what Bailmor wanted, we discussed it.
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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#9: May 24, 2014, 09:52:19 PM
Sounds like a good time to me.   I am in southern NH, near I-95 and would like to attend also if not too far to drive.  Not sure where nah is in New England, maybe we could drive together.  I would be willing to share a room also.  I smoke (will go outside), but want to make sure that does not offend a possible room share situation.  I will keep an eye out for more information as to when and where.   
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