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Meet-Up Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#50: June 16, 2014, 08:26:10 AM
It needs to be a weekend for me. I unfortunately have limited vacation days.
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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#51: June 16, 2014, 09:01:38 AM
Following along! NC is doable for me...I think I am about 5 hours from Raleigh, NC to put it in perspective!

That being said, I am in the middle of supporting our troops currently and just got slammed with a possible support mission that runs from end of July to mid September! If this occurs, I will have to pass as I must remain in the area during this time period!

Looks like I am the farthest South so far (Georgia)! Just set a date and location! If I can get there I will RSVP if not, I will be there in spirit and catch the next one!


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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#52: June 19, 2014, 08:24:42 AM
There seems to be a lot of personal activity in the LBSers' situations recently in the Mid-Atlantic area and I wanted to see if there is any need to speed up this meet up in the future and get something planned.  I am willing to start throwing out dates and places, but I want to know if everyone still is interested and / or just needs time to chill. 
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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#53: June 19, 2014, 11:27:43 AM
Still interested. I just really need someone to tell me my work schedule so I can a
Pro privately plan some fun! :)
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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#54: June 20, 2014, 08:33:58 AM
I'm still interested.  If we did a weekend thing I would have to have time to accumulate money and get dog/child sitters  but if we met in someplace like Rocky Mount, that wouldn't be such a concern.
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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#55: June 20, 2014, 08:52:00 AM
I would still like to attend, but as i stated earlier....duty calls on the job right now! Plus....my intuition and actions I am seeing shows I may be having some movement in my sitch that may require me to stay here or alter my course of actions in the near future!

If the final location is close enough, I might be able to do a "turn & burn" for a day! But please make the location as beneficial for everyone else and I'll see if I can adjust!


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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#56: June 27, 2014, 07:17:49 PM
I would love to possibly join ftt in pa if possible. It might be good for me to have a little getaway!
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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#57: June 29, 2014, 07:27:05 PM
I would definitely be interested in attending.  I am very knew to my wife's MLC.  It has been 2 months since bomb drop.  Wife is living with her female alienator.
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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#58: July 10, 2014, 11:24:10 AM
It seems there is a ton of recent movement in everyone's situations.  I wanted to put out the inquiry as the whether everyone is still interested in a meetup at some point in the future or are personal situations prohibiting that at this point? 

I am open to any upcoming weekend or extended weekend in the Mid-Atlantic region.  It appears a lot of heartache is out there and a group "hug" may be somewhat of a relief.  I am open to any and all suggestions.  Prayers to all during these difficult and trying times!
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Re: Interest in Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up
#59: July 10, 2014, 06:20:24 PM
Sorry about the delay, yes, still offering the original time slot- look back in thread for timing and accommodations. Please PM me if you are making a firm commitment. Please include any dietary needs. I am on a non-smoking property. Please say whether or not you are into group cooking or going out and for which meals.

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