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Discussion Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#10: June 16, 2014, 04:32:44 PM
Need some advice on how to handle a situation that has arisen recently.

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4651.30
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#11: June 16, 2014, 04:51:29 PM
Answered on your thread.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#12: June 18, 2014, 03:57:50 AM
hello

have started a new thread please could someone link them and thanks to those who have joined it would appreciate other comments as think it is a touch and go..

thank you

feeling bit fed up today :-(

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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#13: June 19, 2014, 12:20:42 PM
thank you sand d still no one comments on thread but hey ho

hope you are all ok reading along as usual x
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#14: June 19, 2014, 05:00:37 PM
Hi Dear Mentors,

I would like some advice on/for an impending situation.
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4707.msg328628#msg328628

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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#15: June 23, 2014, 09:13:53 PM
I've been warned that H may have filed for divorce… I really need to know how to handle this before I get confirmation. And I don't think I have a mentor yet. Can anybody help?

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=5134.40
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#16: June 23, 2014, 10:36:04 PM
I am having a real hard time and don't really have anyone to turn to for advice. Could you possible check out my thread explaining my situation? I greatly appreciate it. :)

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=5158.0
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#17: June 29, 2014, 06:48:44 PM
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=5169.msg331319#msg331319

When someone has time I am in need of advice regarding reconciliation on my thread.  I'm having a really hard time.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#18: July 05, 2014, 09:32:47 PM
I cant figure out how to link my thread here since im on my phone. I really need some advice please.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#19: July 06, 2014, 09:35:08 AM
Help!  I really feel like I'm spiraling into crisis mode and will make the wrong move.  Any advice???

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=5206.0

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