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Off-Topic Re: Full Moon Alert
#50: March 04, 2015, 09:03:53 AM
weird--i just looked up the full moon dates for march...
i have been feeling restless and impatient for the past couple of days. 
so now, it's ME that's being affected by the full moon, rather than the crazy MLCer
he seems just fine with the way he's living--he and the nasty girlfriend are going to a comedy show tonight--i know this because i read the d's texts--have posted on my thread about how ex h texts the d's INCESSANTLY.  i think this is part of his teenager behavior...

in fact, d12 is quite likely more mature than her father, who is masquerading as a human adult--the jury's out as to whether he's actually human or still some alien species...
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Re: Full Moon Alert
#51: March 04, 2015, 09:27:06 AM
My h has been odd as heck this week. Not angry, but nice. Conversational. It IS the opposite of how he usually is.
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Re: Full Moon Alert
#52: March 04, 2015, 09:38:32 AM
In case you are in to this sort of thing or just curious:

More info. on the moon in Virgo on March 5:

http://www.mysticmamma.com/full-moon-in-virgo-march-5th/


There were a few things that resonated with me in here:

“This can be felt as one part of us being angry and no longer wanting to take anyone’s bull$h!te anymore- and another part of us wanting to rise above, forgive, understand and let go. The best use of these planetary dispositors is to find a way to bridge them so they can work effectively together…”


“The best use of this Full Moon can be about harnessing the potential for self-adjustments, inner work and healing.

“Virgo is the virgin, but the original meaning of the word did not mean woman who never had sex. It mean woman who owned herself and was whole unto herself.

“So the Highest potential of this Full Moon is moving towards profound healing and wholeness- within as well as without in the form of relationships (and the key is knowing that the inner informs the outer).”
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Can trace MLC behavior back to at least November 2012.
BD#1 May 2013 (No OW)
BD#2 November 2013: H said he needed time/space (Possible EA: A conversation with a woman that led to him asking me if I ever experienced anything like that?!)
BD#3: January 2014 ILYBNILWY speech and moved out for a month to live with male friend (still claims no OW)
BD#4: June 2014 (after a period of "coming  together" that was just a touch and go) said, I don't feel about you how I want to but I wish I did." Also wanted to "divorce and date" me. Upon sale of our home, I got my own place to live. H still says no OW.
August 2014: H filed for divorce; still in progress
October 2014: Alienator enters picture; I've been dim/dark since; suspect she's gone now. OW2?OW3? Who knows?

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Re: Full Moon Alert
#53: March 04, 2015, 09:43:26 AM
At least it's full in nice, healthy, grounding Virgo  :)
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Re: Full Moon Alert
#54: March 04, 2015, 09:45:08 AM
In case you are in to this sort of thing or just curious:

More info. on the moon in Virgo on March 5:

http://www.mysticmamma.com/full-moon-in-virgo-march-5th/

ha, didn't see this until a second after I posted :)
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Re: Full Moon Alert
#55: March 04, 2015, 11:14:44 AM
hmm
i am a virgo.  ex h is a pisces.
this
http://www.mysticmamma.com/full-moon-in-virgo-march-5th/
contains interesting information and perhaps explains why i have been feeling very restless over the past couple of days...

passive aggressive Pisces--right on the money from my perspective!
maybe after tomorrow at 10"05 am, i'll be a "new" person 8)
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Re: Full Moon Alert
#56: March 04, 2015, 12:34:23 PM
Not wanting to take any more crap, yup sounds about right for me atbkeast. Self healing as well. Hmm maybe this full moon will be less crazy and more healing. I hope so.
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Re: Full Moon Alert
#57: March 04, 2015, 07:50:20 PM
Uh oh, as a nurse, we always dread the full moon too. If something crazy is going to happen, it never fails to happen during a full moon.

Really? Didn't knew nurses were so aware of it and that is tended to cause crazy things to happen on the nursing front.

Jo, we are all affected by full moons. Full moons can bring heal and positive change. And the "crazy" doesn't always been bad things are going to happen. Something odd, but good things, will happen.

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Re: Full Moon Alert
#58: March 05, 2015, 10:53:12 AM
hi all
anjae, i used to work retail and we could always tell when it was a full moon because customers would go nuts!

as you say, the full moon affects everyone.  i hope this restlessness and impatience i feel is just more healing for me--i kind of suspect it is, because even though i'm impatient, i am much more indifferent to ex h and his antics than i have been...on the righ track????

now, this settlement is hanging over my head like an anvil.  i am meeting wtih my attorneys next week and we go to court in april.  i am ready to have this DONE!  Anjae, i know you know the feeling!!!
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Re: Full Moon Alert
#59: March 05, 2015, 11:11:37 AM
Oh do I even dare read any of this considering how things are going lately.
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