[elray]

first. Thanks for this thread op and Rcr.  And a little shout out to rugged endurance who left us last week with some constructive criticism.

Second, cheaters beware the karma bus is coming to Arizona.

And now, gentleman, a little more hard core.

Here's an interesting link discussing a common female refrain in culture:  "where have all the good men gone". I'm not in the dating pool, but I find this a little scary if true.
http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2u8hr5/the_following_comment_was_upvoted_to_1000_in/

[hawk]

Effing great idea OP.
You know , it often comes down to the old double standard thing in this stuff and the guys copping cr@p just for saying how it is for them , which l think is bs.
Women will not hesitate to say how it is for them , in front of us or when they get together and we usually $uck it up or stay out of it and tbh if we don't like it tough but , l just expect the same in return .

Just sayin .

[in it]

OK I've been out... I'm drunk...

Most of you think you are in love with you wives   (or ex wives)

Controlling isn't caring...just sayin'

And MONEY and sex isn't what it's all about..Have you figured that out yet?

 Knock yourselves out. ..vent all you want...In It has weighed in.

[elray]

^--- drops mic.

[Mad Hatter]

And a little shout out to rugged endurance who left us last week......


Here's an interesting link discussing a common female refrain in culture:  "where have all the good men gone". I'm not in the dating pool, but I find this a little scary if true.
http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2u8hr5/the_following_comment_was_upvoted_to_1000_in/

Rugged will be missed and that's a shame. Perhaps he will return and join us here!

Interesting article elray to say the least and yet sadly, this seems to be a common theme in the local dating scene. Social Hypergamy at its finest!

OK I've been out... I'm drunk...

Most of you think you are in love with you wives   (or ex wives)

Controlling isn't caring...just sayin'

And MONEY and sex isn't what it's all about..Have you figured that out yet?

 Knock yourselves out. ..vent all you want...In It has weighed in.

I'm sorry you feel that way!


Mad Hatter

[Thundarr]

So......we're basically doing and talking about guy stuff, but within the constraints of the boundaries set by the females here.  It's like we're having a poker game with our significant others sitting in the room listening in on our conversations so we have to like what we say.  OP is basically making all of us menfolk feel like we did when we were married/ together.  Genius!

Oh, yeah, and Pats by 14 Sunday.

[MeNow]

Hey, I could say the same things about the female prospects out there. Roughly 20% might be long term relationship material according to my preferences.

[Mad Hatter]

So......we're basically doing and talking about guy stuff, but within the constraints of the boundaries set by the females here.  It's like we're having a poker game with our significant others sitting in the room listening in on our conversations so we have to like what we say.  OP is basically making all of us menfolk feel like we did when we were married/ together.  Genius!

Oh, yeah, and Pats by 14 Sunday.

I don't see this at all really....he did say he would edit cuss words and such, but I believe the spirit of this board is for us to discuss things and vent ourselves in our way. We should be respectful, but our views and opinions may be voiced. There is a warning that things may get rough.....things may not necessarily be the "social norm". I say express yourself, your views and ideas. OP will let us know and set boundaries as required!

No longer should you feel bound to hold it in yourself. If you didn't have a voice before or in some way felt oppressed, now is your time to speak!

We are listening!

Mad Hatter

[Picton]

Bl**dly awesome! Pleased you boys have a place just for you!!!

I can confirm that if anyone is looking for amazing fashion advice - Me Now is your man!

Can rock a mankini, a hospital gown and knows a thing or two about how to wear a bed pan. I think he might be looking for a side kick or two!

Enjoy you own place - you deserve it

Kia Kaha - Stay strong

[hawk]

OK I've been out... I'm drunk...

Most of you think you are in love with you wives   (or ex wives)

Controlling isn't caring...just sayin'

And MONEY and sex isn't what it's all about..Have you figured that out yet?

 Knock yourselves out. ..vent all you want...In It has weighed in.

init , l could say the same about a lot of the husbands people are waiting to come back .
And l don't get the sex thing as it seems far more important to women than guys.
l could show you a post that went l think 100 pages . It was about what we all miss about being married.
And guess what. Every women in there said sex and it was no 1.. Most of them didn't even mention the real stuff  .
But every guy n there said things like connection , affection , friendship  , working together .
lt really really amazed me .
They also ran another thread about what's important to women. And guess what .
Again , sex , confidence , a good job , ahh = money l believe,  what does all that spell. Again 1.000s of replies. All said the same thing.
Thankfully and l don't mind saying , the women here have all been such a breath of fresh air and have mostly literally restored the faith for me so hearing you actually say the sex and money thing , l for one am really glad you feel that way.

On the downside though no clue why you'd even have a problem with the cave, yet you come here speaking like that .  Whatever went on with your man has nothing to do with whatever happened for everyone else.