Yes, thank you RCR, Limitless, OP and everyone else on here. Who knew there would be a site for this. I like everyone else on here were abandoned and we didn't know what to do, which way to turn. I am so thankful I found this site. All the info on here answered my questions so that I was able to understand what had just happened to me and what was happening to my H. When H abandoned me, several friends and some family members said he was having a MLC. I just thought that meant getting a younger girlfriend and a sports car or Harley. Wow, did I get an awakening about MLC. I have learned so much from this site, grown as a person although I still have a ways to go. It's still not easy. I don't know if it ever will be for me. But I know what I have to do for myself.....and thats GAL. I thought I had a life but now realize I was to attached to my H. It's a slow process but it's something we must do to survive. Again, thank you all for your kindness and support in a time of my life that I needed it more than any other.
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