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#10: December 27, 2010, 09:49:13 AM
You all are so sweet. Me an Angel--Sweetheart would find tht so funny!

But let's not forget the many-eyed and always watchful OldPilot. He reads all, he sees all...maybe he even has a list he checks twice... And a bunch of MLCer's probably got coal in their stockings.

And HeartsBlessing. She brings us her inspiration, her intution, her experience and her love.

Thank you to all of you.
Well thanks RCR.  I would also mention Stayed.
And all the other posters on this board.
There are lots of posts to read these days and I do try to keep up as best I can but you all are doing a great job supporting one another it really has made my "job" :) much easier..

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Re: Thank you, RCR!
#11: December 27, 2010, 10:20:54 AM
I am so very thankful for this forum. It is an addiction all its own. I find myself waiting for a moment to break away and find out what all of our "warriors" are up to.

This forum has given me such peace in a senseless situation. I am thankful to all of you....every day!
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Re: Thank you, RCR!
#12: December 27, 2010, 10:42:24 AM
i can only echo what everyone has perfectly said here:  Thank You, Rollercoasterider!
all the very best to you and yours in 2011!
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Re: Thank you, RCR!
#13: December 27, 2010, 11:43:05 AM
And a bunch of MLCer's probably got coal in their stockings.


This made me laugh.
My girls insisted on hanging H's stocking next to ours even though he is not here and I had to stop them several times while shopping for other gifts to not get fake "Santa's Coal" for his stocking.  At least they were opting for fake.
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Re: Thank you, RCR!
#14: December 27, 2010, 12:13:29 PM
I only barely stopped myself from wrapping a bag of charcoal up for my H.  Pre MLC he would have laughed, but I just didn't think he would find the humor in it this year.
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I also want to add my thanks to RCR.  The articles were one of the first things I found that and have been a huge help through all of this. 
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#15: December 27, 2010, 12:55:19 PM
I would like to concur with everthing that has been said...thanks RCR,HB,OP and stayed :)
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#16: December 28, 2010, 04:46:44 AM
I would like to concur with everthing that has been said...thanks RCR,HB,OP and stayed :)

Me too... all of you have been angels to me!
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Re: Thank you, RCR!
#17: October 05, 2011, 11:34:13 AM
I had wanted to start my own thread about thanking you folks, until I found this old one.

Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you for the website and for the forum.

I do not know where I would go if I couldn't come here and get help through what I find are very dark days in my life.  I can remember the first few months after BD, feeling like there's no sense in this and no hope, and I'm alone; what in the world am I going to do?

Oh sure there are lots of resources out there for marital problems, but that is like giving somebody a globe when they need a road map.  I needed specific answers to the chaos taking my world over.  I am so very grateful for the work that's put into running this site!
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Re: Thank you, RCR!
#18: October 05, 2011, 12:29:03 PM
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Good job bringing up all these old threads, I hope you are getting good info from them.

Keep up the good work.
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#19: October 05, 2011, 12:47:47 PM

Yes, thank you  RCR, Limitless, OP and everyone else on here.  Who knew there would be a site for this.  I like everyone else on here were abandoned and we didn't know what to do, which way to turn.  I am so thankful I found this site.  All the info on here answered my questions so that I was able to understand what had just happened to me and what was happening to my H.   When H abandoned me, several friends and some family members said he was having a MLC.  I just thought that meant getting a younger girlfriend and a sports car or Harley.  Wow, did I get an awakening about MLC.  I have learned so much from this site,  grown as a person although I still have a ways to go.  It's still not easy.  I don't know if it ever will be for me.  But I know what I have to do for myself.....and thats GAL.  I thought I had a life but now realize I was to attached to my H.  It's a slow process but it's something we must do to survive.  Again, thank you all for your kindness and support in a time of my life that I needed it more than any other. 

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