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#20: January 24, 2016, 09:25:34 PM
You Bipolared have a wonderful sense of humor !
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if people won’t listen to you, there’s no point in talking to people. If they won’t listen, you’re just banging your head against a wall.

Sadly Ive used up all the time I had allotted to spend banging my head on the wall

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Re: MLCer Dating Profile
#21: January 25, 2016, 04:48:08 AM
I didn't put anything out here that would allow anyone to know who my X is.  He is no longer on the dating site anyway.
It was just general stuff but if everyone wants to delete this discussion I'm ok with it.

It WAS funny comparing notes, though.   ;D

Love the loyal and trustworthy parts.  LOL 
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Re: MLCer Dating Profile
#22: January 25, 2016, 05:11:32 AM
You Bipolared have a wonderful sense of humor !
Thanks LP, I enjoy yours as well.  We certainly need it, don't we?
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Re: MLCer Dating Profile
#23: January 25, 2016, 02:01:32 PM
Lawprofessor,  I have referred to my Hs OW as "Little Girl" (OW was 20 at BD) and he absolutely hates it.   ;D
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Re: MLCer Dating Profile
#24: January 25, 2016, 02:25:12 PM
MrsCoco, mine hates it as well!  Sometimes the truth hurts I guess.  In my case OW was 23.  She appears to be about 12 however as she is tiny.  She has the figure of a young boy as well, meaning she has no hips or bust. Additionally, she wears her hair in pigtails on the sides of her head.  Ex is now 50 btw.  Once he posted a picture of the two of them on FB.  ONE of our colleagues from Europe commented,

"What a cute picture of you and your daughter.  Just wait until she is old enough to drive and date."

I laughed so hard I had tears when the picture promptly was taken down.  The next time we spoke I asked him how his daughter was....smoke rolled out of his ears.

When the OW is so obviously a train wreck mismatch it is easy to understand they are no threat and MLC is real.  Mine is nothing more than a sad stereotypical old man who could not even do this one thing in an original manner. 

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if people won’t listen to you, there’s no point in talking to people. If they won’t listen, you’re just banging your head against a wall.

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Re: MLCer Dating Profile
#25: January 25, 2016, 03:03:44 PM
I wish my OW was an obvious train wreck. However she does go out with a man who didn't seem to care that his kids spent the weekend with no heat, lights, or running water.   
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Re: MLCer Dating Profile
#26: January 25, 2016, 04:31:12 PM
My MLCer's POF profile said he was looking for fun and no drama. Then he said he's 44 years old and can make his own decisions. (or something like that). I thought it was very revealing. Can't believe there were women who jumped at that.
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