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Discussion Re: Reasons for leaving and justifications for behavior many MLCers give
#150: March 23, 2017, 05:36:16 AM
Quote from: Rossbren on March 23, 2017, 05:34:29 AM

Quote from: MendingLioness on March 22, 2017, 06:56:49 PM
One he just texted me tonight....

"I didn't walk out on the kids... I walked out on you... Don't get the 2 mixed up EVER again."




I got this too, but he did walk out on the kids.  Refused to support them financially and emotionally, walked out of their lives and hasn't looked back. He doesn't see them, or phone them.  He does not care what they are doing, or cares how they are - physically or emotionally....but... APPARENTLY THAT IS NOT WALKING OUT ON THE KIDS?   I am totally confused......totally gobsmacked....totally floored....what has happened to the man I knew so well?  The man who loved his kids beyond.........
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Re: Reasons for leaving and justifications for behavior many MLCers give
#151: March 23, 2017, 06:21:09 AM
That is horrible that these men just left the kids. I am very sorry!!

My h is being the extreme opposite. He said today " you should consider going back to school and let me take care and f the kids. No reason for you to work Harder. You are still in your 30's and should invest your time while you still can. You can see the kids on your off time"

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He moved out May 21,2017
Ow 41( his 1st cousin) moved her in May 23, 2017, she went back to her husband Oct 2017
Ow moved back with her 2 kids Jan 1 2018 even with courts cutting his visitation with his kids because of it
Ow moved out again Dec 2019 and is back with her husband Jan 2020
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BD  February 12 2017 & April 22 2017 (signs of MLC since 2015)
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Re: Reasons for leaving and justifications for behavior many MLCers give
#152: March 23, 2017, 07:03:27 AM
Time to start a new thread, Rossbren.  :)
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Re: Reasons for leaving and justifications for behavior many MLCers give
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