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Title: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on September 09, 2014, 05:40:00 PM
After reading a few of the threads today and seeing some of the behaviors escalating, I wondered if there was a full moon. Sure enough - full moon September 9th, 2014!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Be safe everyone ;)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Pixiegirl on September 09, 2014, 05:42:23 PM
You know I was just thinking the same thing. Was getting ready to go outside and look!!!!
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on September 09, 2014, 05:52:47 PM
And not just any full moon but a super moon (the moon is closer to the earth than on other full moons).
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Pixiegirl on September 09, 2014, 06:20:31 PM
Oh boy!! With super moon that means crazy before and crazy after....explains a lot this week.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on September 09, 2014, 06:40:21 PM
It does, it does. There will be a few more days of crazy crazy.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Shadow on September 09, 2014, 06:43:34 PM
 For many months every time there has been a full moon H has gone into an MLC episode. I now call this time of the month his man period time. (sorry if that is too blunt).  I stay on guard every time his male PMS symptoms start, because I'm sure there is trouble brewing.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on September 09, 2014, 06:44:40 PM
And not just any full moon but a super moon (the moon is closer to the earth than on other full moons).

Yikes!

That does explain a lot.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on September 09, 2014, 06:55:28 PM
I now call this time of the month his man period time. (sorry if that is too blunt). 

No, it is quite accurate. It is now knowed that men's hormones fluctuate and influence their mood.

And full moons and MLCers seem to always bring nuttier that nuttier behavior. It is the same with drinking (people tend to drink more than they usually do), arguments (they get angrier and vicious) and agression. It all seems to escalate.

And if the full moon is on a weekend somehow everything gets even crazier.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: onlyjo on September 09, 2014, 07:04:22 PM
wow!
just reading this before i post on my own thread about ex-h's CRAZY INSANE behavior--monster, threats, ugliness...so glad to know about the full moon!  wonder if mercury's in retrograde too...
wonder if ex h will just take a long walk off a short pier--i'd take that right about now...
onlyjo
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on September 09, 2014, 07:18:05 PM
No, Mercury is not retrograde. It will be in October. Saturn has went direct a while ago and Pluto is changing direction.

Uranus and Pluto are also in a tug of war until 2015, the first squaring the second. And Pluto, lord of the underwold, is in Capricorn where it will remain until 2024. Pluto in Capricorn brings eruptions, disruption, renewal, crumbling of old ways. Last time Pluto was in Capricorn the United States of America come to be.

Yes, Pluto is that slow to complete the zodiac. It takes 248 to obit the Sun/go around the Zodiac.

And if you are wondering why so many floods, leaks, problems with pipes and everything water related, Neptune is in Pisces until 2026.

But for us LBS all that is just a picnic in the park.  ;) ;D
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Truly on September 09, 2014, 07:25:27 PM
Hi Truly here, well that explains a lot, my husband in MLC since June of 2011 just filed for divorce today.....

Truly  :(
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: hopeandfaith on September 10, 2014, 01:20:50 AM
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And full moons and MLCers seem to always bring nuttier that nuttier behavior. It is the same with drinking (people tend to drink more than they usually do), arguments (they get angrier and vicious) and agression. It all seems to escalate.

And if the full moon is on a weekend somehow everything gets even crazier.

Yep, Yep and Yep.  Saw it and did a lot of these ones  ??? ??? ???!

I looked it up on Mystic Mamma and read parts out to H (hint hint).  Is it worse that he is Piscean?
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: riverbirch on September 10, 2014, 05:40:52 AM
I am one that has been affected by the moon in the past.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on September 10, 2014, 05:51:50 AM
well that explains a lot. my h has been insane for like a week.

i don't know much about astrology so what does mercury being in retrograde mean?
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on September 10, 2014, 04:00:33 PM
Mercury rules communications. Mercury retrograde means there would be lot of misunderstandments, communications fail/jam, etc.

No idea if it is worst because your husband is a Pisces. In astrology the emotions (lunar side) are more to do where (in which sign) a person has the moon than with the sun sign.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Pixiegirl on September 10, 2014, 05:36:00 PM
Day 3 of the crazies at work. One thing after another.

H is nuts too. Posting all sorts of stuff on FB for attention. Don't know what happened to all his new BFF's poor baby
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on September 10, 2014, 06:25:06 PM
The crazy may last a few more days.

Lots of people I know, who are not having MLC, are posting all sorts of insane stuff on FB. They are responsible men and women in the community/country, yet they seem to had gone mental.

Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on September 10, 2014, 06:36:06 PM
i hope my trip with the crazy is over for now. i just got things calm again from yesterday i don't think i can handle anymore, at least not directed at me that is. he can direct it at the ow all he wants.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Pixiegirl on September 10, 2014, 07:47:21 PM
Man I know . The world has gone nuts. And I thought I was crazy!
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: hopeandfaith on September 11, 2014, 05:20:25 AM
One of my best friends was BD'd this week.  She was my rock over the last couple of years.  Completely believed in H (without even knowing him) and talked total sense to me.  I DID NOT see this coming at all!!  I am hoping the moon is making him talk crazy too.  At the moment he is considering a relationship with a woman in another state.  My friend can't believe she is living through everything I went through.  It seems the LBS may be paving the way for our friends and our spouses because she does not think she would be handling this as calmly if she hadn't walked the journey with me.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: CallanG on September 11, 2014, 05:25:04 AM

OH gosh H&F I feel for your friend , I can almost see similar things happening with some of my friends . Maybe we were taken down this path to enable us to help others !!!
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: hopeandfaith on September 11, 2014, 05:34:00 AM
Yeah, I think so Callan.  It's amazing because she is a little bit psychic and when I first me her and told her my story, she said "that's gonna happen to me".  The more I got to know her, the more I though that she was the one with one foot out the door.  Not because of anyone else but because she felt she didn't deserve her H.  He was a loyal, happy, loving sort of chappie that just seemed to adore her.

I told her what I thought and she stopped sabotaging the relationship. Now this.  I also remember slumping down one day and saying "why is this happening to me" and she looked at me and said "to show the rest of us that it's possible".  It really strengthened my resolve at the time and made me feel that maybe this is almost a calling.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on September 11, 2014, 06:52:38 AM
i am so sorry your friend is having to deal with this now too, but i really like what she said about you showing others that it is possible to make it through.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Pixiegirl on September 13, 2014, 06:02:08 PM
So sorry to hear about your friend. I do believe we are all connected and sent certain people in our lives to either help or for them to help us.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on November 07, 2014, 12:05:40 PM
We forgot to bump this but the full moon effects are still in place and will be strong at least until Saturday.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on November 07, 2014, 12:15:30 PM
the full moon always brings out the "fun"
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on November 07, 2014, 12:28:07 PM
Yes the full moon does bring on a lot of fun!
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on December 04, 2014, 03:12:05 PM
the weather report says we are under the spell of the full moon again. so, you know, the crazy is gonna come out.  ::)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on December 04, 2014, 03:17:49 PM
It sure is. Lucky for me h is in lock down at treatment so I don't have to deal with it for once.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on December 04, 2014, 03:45:06 PM
Oh no
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Pixiegirl on December 04, 2014, 04:31:58 PM
I saw it when I went out to IC. I thought great! And H is going to be here tomorrow.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: onlyjo on December 04, 2014, 05:44:18 PM
y'all beat me to this--saw the moon when i was out this evening and checked the full moon calendar...says full moon is going to be on 12/6 where i am but i guess the effects are a few days surrounding the "real" date...
yessssss--have already noticed the crazies...going to post on my thread now about just that.

thanks anjae!
onlyjo
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on December 04, 2014, 05:51:17 PM
The real full moon is December 6 but the effects star before and last a few days after.

So far I'm not seeing much crazy except for some people in the street/local shops being a bit rash.

Doubt I will see any Mr J related crazy. On the other hand someone seems to have altered my mobile payment conditions. It wasn't me. It leaves two options, the provider did it without letting me know, Mr J did it.

Will go with my brother to one of the provider's shops to see what is up.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Ready2Transform on December 04, 2014, 08:18:36 PM
I'm curious to see what this one and the Christmas Eve new moon bring.  Well aspected for me, so I hope it pans out!

Hope everything is ok with the mobile payment issue, Anjae.  If it was MrJ, total shades of Hoss there with him fiddling with the mortgage account periodically.  Power any way they can.  ::)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on January 03, 2015, 09:08:46 PM
Full moon January 4th! It is a Wolf Moon - I need to look it up.

Prepare yourselves :)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: MeNow on January 03, 2015, 09:28:42 PM
Hey, I'm off. Maybe it's my night to howl.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on January 03, 2015, 09:29:35 PM
Why does the fact it's a wolf moon make me want to laugh uncontrollably
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: patience.of.a.saint on January 05, 2015, 09:22:18 PM
Blackice...I have the same thought on that...makes me want to laugh.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on January 05, 2015, 10:31:31 PM
I got a dose of full moon crazy. I swear even though I know it's coming I am never prepared for it at all.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Blackhen on January 06, 2015, 02:16:13 AM
Weird, but I think this is the first full moon since BD (18 months) that I have slept like a baby. Even the owls are quiet...

WHAT DOES THIS MEAN???!!!!!
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on January 31, 2015, 05:49:23 PM
We at it again. Or almost. Tuesday there is a full moon. So, if strange things start to happen and if our MLCers start to behave weirdly, we know why.  ;) :)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on January 31, 2015, 05:59:27 PM
Oh thanks for the heads up. I was wondering if it was soon cause things have already gotten weird.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on January 31, 2015, 06:31:32 PM
No wonder H has been acting up!
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on January 31, 2015, 06:52:15 PM
The crazy tends to star a few day before the full moon and to last for 2 or 3 days after the full moon.

Getting our protective head gear may be a good idea for the days to come.  :)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on March 03, 2015, 04:06:07 PM
More crazy on the way. Full Moon is on March 5.  ::)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Pixiegirl on March 03, 2015, 04:15:08 PM
Glad I am keeping communication to a minimum then. I do know H saw his therapist today so I will probably get a text from him later tonight.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on March 03, 2015, 05:31:30 PM
Already :o
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on March 03, 2015, 08:28:36 PM
well that explains a few things.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: HopeFaithLove on March 03, 2015, 08:38:35 PM
Uh oh, as a nurse, we always dread the full moon too. If something crazy is going to happen, it never fails to happen during a full moon. Plus we are expecting another big snowstorm on the 5th as well. I think I will suddenly develop a serious illness and have to stay home.  ;D
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Blackhen on March 03, 2015, 11:28:18 PM
The Owls are out and screaming...

 8)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: onlyjo on March 04, 2015, 09:03:53 AM
weird--i just looked up the full moon dates for march...
i have been feeling restless and impatient for the past couple of days. 
so now, it's ME that's being affected by the full moon, rather than the crazy MLCer
he seems just fine with the way he's living--he and the nasty girlfriend are going to a comedy show tonight--i know this because i read the d's texts--have posted on my thread about how ex h texts the d's INCESSANTLY.  i think this is part of his teenager behavior...

in fact, d12 is quite likely more mature than her father, who is masquerading as a human adult--the jury's out as to whether he's actually human or still some alien species...
uugh
onlyjo
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: mamaman on March 04, 2015, 09:27:06 AM
My h has been odd as heck this week. Not angry, but nice. Conversational. It IS the opposite of how he usually is.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Wildfire on March 04, 2015, 09:38:32 AM
In case you are in to this sort of thing or just curious:

More info. on the moon in Virgo on March 5:

http://www.mysticmamma.com/full-moon-in-virgo-march-5th/


There were a few things that resonated with me in here:

“This can be felt as one part of us being angry and no longer wanting to take anyone’s bull$h!te anymore- and another part of us wanting to rise above, forgive, understand and let go. The best use of these planetary dispositors is to find a way to bridge them so they can work effectively together…”


“The best use of this Full Moon can be about harnessing the potential for self-adjustments, inner work and healing.

“Virgo is the virgin, but the original meaning of the word did not mean woman who never had sex. It mean woman who owned herself and was whole unto herself.

“So the Highest potential of this Full Moon is moving towards profound healing and wholeness- within as well as without in the form of relationships (and the key is knowing that the inner informs the outer).”
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: MsT on March 04, 2015, 09:43:26 AM
At least it's full in nice, healthy, grounding Virgo  :)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: MsT on March 04, 2015, 09:45:08 AM
In case you are in to this sort of thing or just curious:

More info. on the moon in Virgo on March 5:

http://www.mysticmamma.com/full-moon-in-virgo-march-5th/

ha, didn't see this until a second after I posted :)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: onlyjo on March 04, 2015, 11:14:44 AM
hmm
i am a virgo.  ex h is a pisces.
this
http://www.mysticmamma.com/full-moon-in-virgo-march-5th/ (http://www.mysticmamma.com/full-moon-in-virgo-march-5th/)
contains interesting information and perhaps explains why i have been feeling very restless over the past couple of days...

passive aggressive Pisces--right on the money from my perspective!
maybe after tomorrow at 10"05 am, i'll be a "new" person 8)
onlyjo
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on March 04, 2015, 12:34:23 PM
Not wanting to take any more crap, yup sounds about right for me atbkeast. Self healing as well. Hmm maybe this full moon will be less crazy and more healing. I hope so.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on March 04, 2015, 07:50:20 PM
Uh oh, as a nurse, we always dread the full moon too. If something crazy is going to happen, it never fails to happen during a full moon.

Really? Didn't knew nurses were so aware of it and that is tended to cause crazy things to happen on the nursing front.

Jo, we are all affected by full moons. Full moons can bring heal and positive change. And the "crazy" doesn't always been bad things are going to happen. Something odd, but good things, will happen.

Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: onlyjo on March 05, 2015, 10:53:12 AM
hi all
anjae, i used to work retail and we could always tell when it was a full moon because customers would go nuts!

as you say, the full moon affects everyone.  i hope this restlessness and impatience i feel is just more healing for me--i kind of suspect it is, because even though i'm impatient, i am much more indifferent to ex h and his antics than i have been...on the righ track????

now, this settlement is hanging over my head like an anvil.  i am meeting wtih my attorneys next week and we go to court in april.  i am ready to have this DONE!  Anjae, i know you know the feeling!!!
onlyjo
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: riverbirch on March 05, 2015, 11:11:37 AM
Oh do I even dare read any of this considering how things are going lately.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: riverbirch on March 05, 2015, 02:02:46 PM
Well the title of my thread fits then.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on March 05, 2015, 06:41:33 PM
anjae, i used to work retail and we could always tell when it was a full moon because customers would go nuts!

Wow, I had no idea. I've briefly worked in retail a couple times in my life but, by then, didn't made the connection.

Impatience and anxiety can be us moving to new stage of growth. Growth/change can be stressing. If used in the right way it will bring us to a even more advanced stage of growth.

Settlements, court cases, alimony. All those things seem to hang over our heads and to take forever to sort out with an MLCer. Phew.  ::)

Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on March 05, 2015, 06:47:32 PM
anjae, i used to work retail and we could always tell when it was a full moon because customers would go nuts!

Wow, I had no idea. I've briefly worked in retail a couple times in my life but, by then, didn't made the connection.

I worked in retail for over 20 years and knew it was full moon based on the customers behavior before I ever saw the moon!
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on March 05, 2015, 06:56:44 PM
One can, therefore, conclude that it is not a good idea to go to a hospital/health centre or shopping, at least in busy shops, during a full moon.  ;) :)

I know that full moons and drinking alcohol do not bond well. The effects of the alcohol are enhanced.

And we all know that, as a general rule, it is better to stay away from a MLCer during a full moon.  ::)

Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: HopeFaithLove on March 05, 2015, 07:05:10 PM
Well with that conclusion made, please pray for me tomorrow, I have to go to a hospital, being that I work there.  :o I need to plan this better in the future. lol
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on March 05, 2015, 07:13:43 PM
I will. It was you that told us nurses notice full moons because people go crazy. Hence my conclusion.  ;D So, we can consider you a veteran of the trenches of hospital full moon.  :)

Not to say you don't need all our prayers and thoughts, but you have a headstart.  ;) :)

Here in Portugal everyone is been going crazy in hospitals for months. They are over capacity. It all started with the flu (and the government cuts) and escalated from there.

People have die waiting to be seen in the ER, people, including elderly one, who have strokes or pneumonia are kept in corridors or short permanence ER rooms for days, sometimes up to 10 days.

The full moon must had arrived here long ago and is refusing to leave. Needless to say, all medical, nursing and health aid personal is exhausted. Our hospital and personal are good, but it is almost impossible to work the way they are working. And we are a EU country with a good NHS. Imagine if we weren't.

Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: HopeFaithLove on March 05, 2015, 07:36:36 PM
OMG that is terrible Anjae. The flu has hit bad here in the States also, we have been very busy and the nurse's and doctor's have been sick too, but not to that extent. Exhaustion in healthcare workers is not a good thing because that's when dangerous mistakes are made. I often wonder in all governments why the average people are worth so little. You can pay a sports figure millions of dollars and generate absurd amounts of money for sporting events, movies and television shows, but you can't take care of your nations children, elderly and sick people. Then they want to take more taxes and money from the working class to pay for it all.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Greenapple on March 06, 2015, 07:00:13 PM
I have felt really unstable the last few days.  Thinking I may not win in my battle to survive. Crying every day. It's a mental battle not to dwell on the impending divorce. STBXH is home for several days during this full moon so I'm really freaked out  I hate feeling this sick
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on March 06, 2015, 08:24:06 PM
Full moon is taking its toll on me this month ??? I have been looking for a place to move to that will allow my cats and is a decent place - yesterday I found the perfect place, I was so excited. I was told that it was available and I could see it the next day - I called again because I hadn't heard anything and was told that it was rented now >:( It really bummed me out - more so than I would have thought it would. I think the full moon pushed me over the edge - I probably needed a good cry anyway.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on March 08, 2015, 06:35:17 PM
HopeFaithLove, it is. And there is no reason for what is happening. We have state of the art hospitals, great staff, and all latest the knowledge on health issues. But with money cuts and lack of personnel, well, disaster follow.

You will make it, Greenapple. This full moon is making pretty much everyone anxious and agitated.

Searching4Answers, I'm sorry about the place. A good cry is always useful.

The moon is still very full and it pours into my bedroom. These past few days have been odd. On one side I'm very calm, but several family members are loosing it, on the other there is anxiety and a few days back I was too tired and lost it a bit with grandmother.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on March 08, 2015, 06:50:44 PM
Searching4Answers, I'm sorry about the place. A good cry is always useful.

Thanks Anjae ;)

Another opportunity has has already presented itself! I think it could turn out to be better than the other one. I was really surprised at how it threw me for a loop. I think I just needed a cleansing cry :o
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on April 01, 2015, 06:49:20 PM
We're there again. In the pre full moon days. It will be full April 4. And this time we get a blood moon = full lunar eclipse. It may be a bumpy and/or interesting ride.

Remember the madness and strange things start a few days before the full moon and only end a few days after.  ::)

Have fun  ;D and happy Easter.  :)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: HopeFaithLove on April 01, 2015, 06:54:02 PM
Oh crap, not again!!!!!! :o Thank God I'm off this time around. ;)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on April 01, 2015, 10:24:07 PM
it's already beginning. I don't think it really stopped since the last time. the crazy has been pretty consistent. which makes me wonder if something is going to blow this time.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on April 05, 2015, 03:51:58 PM
I don't think it really stopped since the last time. the crazy has been pretty consistent. which makes me wonder if something is going to blow this time.

Maybe it didn't stop since the March's full moon because March's and April's full moons were between eclipses. There was a solar eclipse on March 20th and now the lunar eclipse a couple of days ago (April 4).
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on April 05, 2015, 04:29:30 PM
that explains a few things. it's gotten weirder by the day all week.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on April 05, 2015, 04:50:15 PM
And it may still be pretty weird for a few days more. The effects of the full last a few days before it is fully full and  a few days after it. An eclipse effects can be felt for 6 months after it (sometimes very subtly, other times not so much).

I can see that big, sort of orange moon right outside my windown as I write. Must say that even if this time I have manage to sleep (so far), and nothing earth shaking has happened (that I know of), it does still have a peculiar effect upon me.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on April 27, 2015, 04:12:39 PM
So that everyone gets warned in time, full Moon is on May 3rd. Meaning, all will star getting nuts a few days before and until a few days afterwards.  ::)

Prepare for one more jumpy ride.  ;D
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: MsT on April 27, 2015, 04:23:40 PM
bracing
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: HopeFaithLove on April 27, 2015, 07:53:19 PM
Oh boy, May 4th is H's birthday. Usually he is out of town for his birthday for a big trade show that is mandatory for his work. So I may be safe this time around. Actually he has been very quiet lately so I doubt there will be any issues. But I'll tell you that the crazies are early at work because we have had a load of them lately. I had a man this weekend that carried on worse than a 5 year old. His wife acted really embarrassed. I really don't know why he acted that way, it must be attention seeking or something.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: patience.of.a.saint on April 27, 2015, 08:20:52 PM
Full moon....never would've thought of that. Can the crazies start like 2 weeks in advance? Or maybe mine has just gone off the deep end without astrological assistance. ::)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: HopeFaithLove on April 27, 2015, 08:24:30 PM
Lol, I'd say that's probably the case. We nurses do see an increase in craziness around the full moon, believe it or not. We talk about it all the time.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on April 27, 2015, 10:30:57 PM
its already started. though its not as manic as previous ones. he's evening out again but he's always been affected by the full moon, even before mlc so i am kind of used to it.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on April 28, 2015, 05:53:07 PM
I had a man this weekend that carried on worse than a 5 year old. His wife acted really embarrassed. I really don't know why he acted that way, it must be attention seeking or something.

Or in MLC?  ::)

Two weeks seems to be too early for the craziness to be full moon related, but the effects of eclipses can be felt for six months. There was a blood moon eclipse on April 4.

Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: HopeFaithLove on April 28, 2015, 07:09:19 PM
Ahhhh
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: onlyjo on April 30, 2015, 04:52:22 PM
Ha!
Just got monster from the MLCer and was all bent out of shape then remembered--FULL MOON!  Explains some of it at least...
Craziness-I'm over it!!!
I just ignore and go my merry way.
Onlyjo
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: MsT on May 01, 2015, 07:04:38 AM
In scorpio no less. Get ready for intense emotional garbage.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on May 01, 2015, 09:28:15 AM
great. intense emotional spewing. I feel it coming. it started this morning. it will all blow up and then go right back to hat it was before and nothing will change. blah blah blah blah blah.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on May 31, 2015, 06:07:29 PM
We are there again. In two days, June 2.  ::) Not certain is much madness is going to happen, but it tends to.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on May 31, 2015, 06:22:21 PM
crap. it's been geared up for a week already.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: in it on May 31, 2015, 06:29:16 PM
I also read Mercury is in retro grade and will be until the 12th..sometimes it effects people to feel things are worse than they are.

This full moon is in Sagittarius.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: patience.of.a.saint on May 31, 2015, 09:20:19 PM
I had some clean flirty texting today...now I know why.  :o He'd been pretty low key for quite a while so it's kind of funny this thread popped up today when I had some questionable texts.

I may have to see if it happens again next month. Last month at full moon time, he was going nutso on me.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on May 31, 2015, 09:35:39 PM
you too lol. mine hit me up hard today with the sexting, which is something we never did ever in the first place. it wasnt bad, pretty clean as far as that kind of stuff goes
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Strongwind on May 31, 2015, 11:51:53 PM
Hi I didn't read everyone's post but I got to where someone said that Mercury was not retrograde. Actually Mercury is retrograde till the 11th of June.

Our Mlcer being affected by all of the planetary changes accruing  goes to show that they are very weak at this time and anything throws them off or on.  ;)

We have the power to control our minds. We control the planet of our minds. the rest is subject to our thinking. That's what I'm endeavoring to do as I'm sure I've Mlcer off because I dare protect myself and interests legally.  I realize if I don't protect myself my Mlcer has no problem with putting me on the streets.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: in it on June 01, 2015, 12:43:56 AM
I posted about Mercury being in retrograde. I just had the date wrong.

And yes Strongwind. They have no problem putting you on the street.

And if you stop claiming them as in "my" Mlcer it may help you detach.

Try using THE ex, THE MLCER, THE H,  THE W.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on June 01, 2015, 06:00:47 PM
Those unusual texting may be the retro Mercury. One of the things it does is to bring back people/communications from the past. Maybe your MLCers remembered to be flirty.  ::)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: patience.of.a.saint on June 01, 2015, 06:38:47 PM
Those unusual texting may be the retro Mercury. One of the things it does is to bring back people/communications from the past. Maybe your MLCers remembered to be flirty.  ::)

Could very well be. Today, I got a picture sent to me that was something I had sent when we were still together.  And then he proceeded to tell me how looking at it made him feel. ::)  :o

And now I am back to ignoring him.

How long does this retro Mercury time last? And where would I look to read more about the moon & such? It's kind of interesting.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on June 01, 2015, 07:13:54 PM
Mercury is in retrograde until the 11th. it's been there for a few weeks now I think.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: in it on June 02, 2015, 03:00:19 AM
POAS..maybe try googling it
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Wildfire on June 02, 2015, 08:11:08 AM
POAS: This is a website I like and that I check out weekly for the Kaypacha Report (under the Astral Insights link) and monthly for information about the full moon.


http://www.mysticmamma.com/full-moon-in-sagittarius-june-2nd-2015/
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: patience.of.a.saint on June 02, 2015, 10:27:09 AM
Thank you, Wildfire. That's what I was hoping to find. ;D
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: MsT on June 02, 2015, 04:02:05 PM
Hi, POAS cafeastrology.com is the one my sister always sends people to
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on June 26, 2015, 07:16:37 PM
Advanced alert, July will have not one, but two full moons.

First one is July 2, second one, July 31. Looks like it is going to be a fun crazy month.  ::)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on June 26, 2015, 07:40:34 PM
great. and for one of those I'll be living with him again. this is going to be a fun month. it's already giving me a headache.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on June 26, 2015, 07:49:09 PM
Oh joy :o
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: patience.of.a.saint on June 27, 2015, 02:18:39 AM
Mine's bound to go full blast since he's been pretty low key now for a couple weeks. Thanks for the heads up. This is going to be the first time I know about this in advance so that part might be amusing.  ;D
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: MsT on June 27, 2015, 12:07:00 PM
Great  ::)
Mine might be around this week instead of working, too....
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on July 01, 2015, 07:12:20 AM
Advanced alert, July will have not one, but two full moons.

First one is July 2, second one, July 31. Looks like it is going to be a fun crazy month.  ::)

Full moon is starting to have its effects :o
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: patience.of.a.saint on July 01, 2015, 07:37:15 AM
Advanced alert, July will have not one, but two full moons.

First one is July 2, second one, July 31. Looks like it is going to be a fun crazy month.  ::)

Full moon is starting to have its effects :o

THAT must be why mine asked how I was feeling today! I got his text and thought WTH? He hasn't asked how I am feeling for...not even sure how long.  :o
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on July 01, 2015, 07:55:09 AM
Advanced alert, July will have not one, but two full moons.

First one is July 2, second one, July 31. Looks like it is going to be a fun crazy month.  ::)

Full moon is starting to have its effects :o

THAT must be why mine asked how I was feeling today! I got his text and thought WTH? He hasn't asked how I am feeling for...not even sure how long.  :o

LOL...mine asked me last if everything was ok with me?! I told him "everything is good" - haven't heard anymore from him ::)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: patience.of.a.saint on July 01, 2015, 08:33:30 AM
I answered "feeling pretty good" and he replied "that's good" and I would bet five bucks I don't hear any more from him today.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on July 01, 2015, 10:55:17 AM
I answered "feeling pretty good" and he replied "that's good" and I would bet five bucks I don't hear any more from him today.

Mine usually has to have the last word - I think that he is annoyed because I didn't respond to an email that he sent the day before. Oh well.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on July 01, 2015, 10:58:00 AM
mines getting on a plane and heading this way...I'm mentally preparing myself for a load of drama.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on July 01, 2015, 07:15:07 PM
Hope your husband does not stay around until the next full moon, later in the month. Otherwise you may be having the joy of weeks of soap opera worthy drama.  ::)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on July 01, 2015, 09:23:13 PM
Full moon is definitely in full effect - H is all chatty :o  I don't usually get more than few words here and there. He has been texting all night!
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: hopingpraying on July 01, 2015, 09:56:26 PM
Full moon is definitely in full effect - H is all chatty :o  I don't usually get more than few words here and there. He has been texting all night!

Is this why mine has been almost normal lately?  Chatty and almost concerned? 
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: patience.of.a.saint on July 02, 2015, 05:34:20 AM
Mine has been uncharacteristically quiet. :o The last two full moons were like he was crazy(crazier?)...and this time...silence.  ??? It's like the silence you hear when you think a storm is over, but it still seems funny looking outside....and then the winds pick up and it starts raining & all of a sudden you have hail.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on July 02, 2015, 07:08:25 AM
Mine has been uncharacteristically quiet. :o The last two full moons were like he was crazy(crazier?)...and this time...silence.  ??? It's like the silence you hear when you think a storm is over, but it still seems funny looking outside....and then the winds pick up and it starts raining & all of a sudden you have hail.

Lol :)

The full moon takes things to the extreme.

Full moon is definitely in full effect - H is all chatty :o  I don't usually get more than few words here and there. He has been texting all night!

Is this why mine has been almost normal lately?  Chatty and almost concerned? 

Very possible. Mine sounded pretty normal last night. I think that I must be healing a little more - I actually engaged in some bantering with him ???
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on July 02, 2015, 08:03:34 AM
Oh mine will be around for the next one, he's living with me again for now. yeah. fun times ahead. this one's already a doozy.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: hopingpraying on July 02, 2015, 09:20:48 PM
ANDDDDD the JERK is back!  SIGH!  I knew it was coming sooner rather than later. A friend pointed out to me that it seems he always snaps just as the weekend is dawning. I never realized that. Oh well, with any luck he will have to go away all weekend. Sounds mean I know, BUT, I NEED some sanity right now.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: patience.of.a.saint on July 26, 2015, 08:57:00 PM
Full moon on Friday. ;)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on July 27, 2015, 07:10:38 AM
Full moon on Friday. ;)

Oh goodie - something to look forward too ::)
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on July 27, 2015, 07:32:24 AM
Oh joy, and he's here this time. this should be interesting.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: patience.of.a.saint on July 27, 2015, 09:13:42 AM
Oh joy, and he's here this time. this should be interesting.
Just found out mine's coming to visit Thursday.  :o
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on July 27, 2015, 11:15:26 AM
I've already had an over emotional encounter with him this morning, I don't want to deal with his full moon crazy.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: MsT on July 27, 2015, 02:38:35 PM
All I can think right now is cuss words.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: OffRoad on July 27, 2015, 03:31:46 PM
And Venus is retrograde until September 6.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on July 27, 2015, 03:56:16 PM
what does that mean?
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: OffRoad on July 28, 2015, 01:17:05 AM
It is typical for love relationship issues to arise during Venus retrograde, or even in the month leading up to it during the “shadow phase.” Many couples experience a period of re-evaluation and/or begin to look at things in a new light. There could be new realizations that either end or strengthen a relationship. In some cases, couples may break up and then get back together in what will become a stronger union. For others, they may reconnect with a lover or a friend from the past where they may explore their relationship in a new way.

From http://www.collective-evolution.com/2015/07/27/venus-retrograde-in-leo-virgo-reassessing-our-values-our-love-lives/ (http://www.collective-evolution.com/2015/07/27/venus-retrograde-in-leo-virgo-reassessing-our-values-our-love-lives/)

It would be interesting to see what happens to MLC relationships, if anything.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Blackhen on July 28, 2015, 02:46:34 AM
Thanks for the heads up re Venus being retrograde, OffRoad, and the explanation that it may not necessarily have a negative effect.

My MLCer appears to be reconnecting, and I have been wondering how this will pan out towards the end of the week as I have seen plenty of crazy from him at full moons over the last two years.

Just after BD I found poems he wrote to/about OW where he talked about "their" moon (they hooked up on a full moon night on the beach on a tropical island) and 5 months down the track, after she flew away to the other side of the world, tragic ones about the pain of every subsequent full moon without her...

The other night he was trying to describe his experiences over the time I guess he was deep in the tunnel and captured by his relationship with OW. He said "There was a lot of screaming... and full moons...."

At full moon an owl would often come and wake me up screaming outside my window, and then I would know to expect a touch and go and invariably this would be the next day.

Spooky stuff. But then they are all seemingly LUNAtics...
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on July 28, 2015, 07:34:04 PM
To make the party a real party, Uranus is also retrograde (even if it goes retrograde every year for several months)

http://www.elephantjournal.com/2015/07/double-trouble-uranus-venus-retrograding-together/

http://www.lynnkoiner.com/astrology-articles/uranus-retrograde

Full moon, Venus and Uranus retrograde. What a lovely 3 in 1.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on July 28, 2015, 09:42:28 PM
the whole truth aspect of Uranus being in retrograde on top of the relationship stuff and the full moon...I'm goin to need a drink lol
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on August 25, 2015, 07:38:41 PM
Friday's full moon is a super moon!!!

http://cosmicpsychic.com/2015/08/21/shocking-endings-and-beginnings-first-super-full-moon-august-2015/
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on August 26, 2015, 11:07:17 AM
and it's already begun! glad he's not here but he's still all over messaging me. *sigh* poor baby lol
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: onlyjo on August 28, 2015, 05:31:50 PM
Wow
My sleep has been interrupted for days now....
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Wildfire on August 28, 2015, 05:37:54 PM
Full Moon Supermoon in PISCES August 29th 2015

http://www.mysticmamma.com/full-moon-supermoon-in-pisces-august-29th-2015/


Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on August 28, 2015, 09:05:55 PM
Wow
My sleep has been interrupted for days now....

So has mine. Tonight the sky is clear, it has been foggy, and the big bright full moon makes it look blueish.

This super moon is truly messing with my sleep. Hope it fades quick, even if it looks amazing.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on August 28, 2015, 09:11:52 PM
Oh its in high gear tonight. it's got my anxiety up really bad. plus h is all over the place, I'm so glad he's not here right now.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: MsT on August 29, 2015, 04:02:03 AM
I can't GD sleep either.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on September 25, 2015, 05:32:24 PM
Sorry, this time I got a little late to the warning. Full moon about to hit on the 27-28. It is a another super moon/blood moon, the fourth in a row, I think.

On top of it all, this is the Harvest Moon, the moon closest to the Autumn Equinox.

So, you know, prepare for madness. Probably in high doses.  ::)

Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Searching4Answers on September 25, 2015, 06:44:03 PM
I already have a lot going on - I don't need more drama! ExH broke his NC this week :o this should be fun.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on September 25, 2015, 06:55:47 PM
joy lol

thanks for the reminder.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: MsT on September 25, 2015, 07:31:31 PM
An added dimension to it is that it is also Eclipse.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: patience.of.a.saint on September 25, 2015, 09:15:49 PM
Mine seemed to be drifting away, not as much contact...and then yesterday, he attempted naughty texting again. I chuckled...and then looked up when the next full moon would be. Sure enough it's Monday.

Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on October 23, 2015, 07:45:31 PM
A little advanced warning, the full moon in on the 27. It is again a supermoon, like the previous two full moons.

This one is not as close to Earth as the August one nor is a blood moon eclipse like the September one.

Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: blackice on October 23, 2015, 08:18:56 PM
well that explains a few things.
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: patience.of.a.saint on October 23, 2015, 09:31:40 PM
I'll be curious how this one plays out since OW forced NC on my MLCer. I'm hoping it's her turn for the crazy!
Title: Re: Full Moon Alert
Post by: Anjae on December 23, 2015, 05:42:05 PM
new thread: http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=7350.0