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During your marriage, were you the pursuer or the distancer?

I was mostly an emotional pursuer but sexual distancer.
I was mostly an emotional pursuer and sexual pursuer.
I was mostly an emotional distancer and sexual distancer.
I was mostly an emotional distancer but sexual pursuer.
None of these (secure).
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MLC Monster Re: Are you a pursuer or distancer?
#40: September 30, 2011, 08:02:20 PM
Emotional and sexual pusurer . Sounds like a bad thing but I don't feel that it was. But I am not sure how or if this played a part in our current situation
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Re: Are you a pursuer or distancer?
#41: September 30, 2011, 08:22:15 PM
Emotional pursuer and sexual distancer.  My H had and still has a pornography addiction and the physical part of our marriage was never as close as it should have been.  His addiction over time put up a wall between us.
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