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#150: June 15, 2017, 05:48:34 PM
 Mae, you need to learn to stand back and let him fix what he's broken.  If he broke it without your input, he needs to fix it without your input.  If your M is important to him, he'll do what HE needs to do to fix it.  Period.
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Re: Now that I'm here again.....
#151: June 15, 2017, 08:20:24 PM
Mae, I totally get your confusion.  When I read what you posted I was looking forward to what others have to say because I think I may be in a similar position.

Must find that article on contrition.
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BD's in May 09, Sept 12 - suspected OW
Left home Jan 12 2013
OW confirmed Feb 2013
Moved home April 11 2014
BD again in April 2017 - clinging. 
Moved home again March 2020
Moved out July 2017
Moved home March 2020
D21, D19 and S17
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Re: Now that I'm here again.....
#152: June 16, 2017, 12:13:29 AM
The discussion will need to continue on a new thread though.....

It's time.....
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Me - 61, xW - 54
Together 19 years - Married 17 at separation & 21 at D-Day
S - 17, D - 13
1 Dog
BD#1 - August 2015
Atomic BD - 13 Dec 2015
House sold & separated - Mar 2016
Divorce final 30 August 2019
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A "friend" will not "stand by you" no matter what you do. That is NOT a friend. That is an enabler. That is an accomplice.
A REAL friend will sit you down and tell you to your face to stop being a firetrucking idiot before you ruin your life and the lives of those around you.

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Re: Now that I'm here again.....
#153: June 16, 2017, 01:27:50 AM
Thanks UM,

Here is the link to the new thread:

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=9132.0

Just not sure how to lock this old one.
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Me: 50
H: 40
S19, D15
Together for 19 years
BDay in 2004, 2011 and now March 5 2017
Ran away on 5 March BD
No OW
Returned home 'underdone' 1 July 2017.
Left again 22 October 2017.
H - Silent and non-communicative
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