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Interacting with Your MLCer Re: To Divorce or Delay--Tactical Advice
#20: August 21, 2011, 08:48:46 AM
Here is a simple sentence from RCR's article on Acceptance that I believe has a strong message.  Regarding divorce, the big truth is that this "new life" that the MLCer seeks is, with rare exception, impossible to attain.

"As a spouse--present or former, Standing or not, your journey's are intertwined."
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Re: To Divorce or Delay--Tactical Advice
#21: August 21, 2011, 09:20:20 AM
DGU - a simple truth, but grrrr, sometimes I wish it weren't so! I would like to "un-twine" from him at times.
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Re: To Divorce or Delay--Tactical Advice
#22: August 21, 2011, 09:40:26 AM
StandandDeliver

I hear you....and concur.  I would also be open to some "un-twine" right now.

My MLCer divorced me, but I've had 8 contacts from her in the last 16 days.  Some face to face, some phone call, and some e-mail.  Everything from walking the dog together to her telling me that we need to decide something about our common property. 

The way we do it now is the way she put it in the divorce decree.....but she wants to change that now.....but also said she is not in a hurry.  We are only 1.5 years post bomb drop.....so I guess this "fun" will continue for a while.......especially since I believe that quote from RCR is very true.
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