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MLC Monster Re: Therapy during MLC
#90: September 12, 2011, 08:14:29 PM
amen, affaircare.

Too add, anyone new here taking their MLC spouse to therapy, be careful and listen to all this good advice the amazing people here are sharing...

in my situation, I thought my prayers were answered when I got my ex (then wife) to go to MC. Thrilled that we were going to 'work on the marriage' I was given restrictions on the way there (don't tell her about this/that) then when we were given some tasks to complete by the following week, It came down to lets just say we did them. We stopped going (since I uncovered her affair and she said we wanted a divorce). But, since we went to marriage counseling, she began using that as justification. Here, she had told family members that WE agreed to a divorce and that we went to marriage counseling to make sure we couldnt save our marriage. Its a common trap. Also, there should be no affair partner in the picture when you go to MC - and a good MC wont bother with you if there is.

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