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Discussion Anyone else have a vanisher? 15
OP: April 04, 2018, 01:23:43 AM
           Here we go again.


Previous thread:  http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=9851.0
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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher? 15
#1: April 04, 2018, 03:45:39 AM
Coming along with you again blue rose xx
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BD 20/10/2014
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10 come backs and leaves again for same ow
Last left 7.03.17.
Ow 16 yrs younger, no children never been married. co worker. EA turned to PA and lives with ow
Divorce bomb drop by him 31/8/17 by solicitor letter after being caught by ow at lunch with me 3 wk earlier. Finances Not yet finalised.
Crazy divorce started by him.
Clinging boomerang for 3 yrs now Vanisher but  twice a yr pops his head up. ow has balls in a vice!
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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher? 15
#2: April 04, 2018, 04:22:12 AM
    I dont want to do this anymore!! Lol
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#3: April 04, 2018, 04:23:40 AM
The thread blue or the journey? Xx
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Me 55
H56
Divorced 3/dec/2019
Together 30yrs
BD 20/10/2014
Left first 12/12/2014
10 come backs and leaves again for same ow
Last left 7.03.17.
Ow 16 yrs younger, no children never been married. co worker. EA turned to PA and lives with ow
Divorce bomb drop by him 31/8/17 by solicitor letter after being caught by ow at lunch with me 3 wk earlier. Finances Not yet finalised.
Crazy divorce started by him.
Clinging boomerang for 3 yrs now Vanisher but  twice a yr pops his head up. ow has balls in a vice!

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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher? 15
#4: April 04, 2018, 05:48:35 AM
Quote from: bluerose on April 04, 2018, 04:22:12 AM
    I dont want to do this anymore!! Lol

 ;D  ;D

I wish we could just keep one long @ss thread bc every time the conversation starts to get good, we have to start a new one...

Thank you Bluerose for keeping the all time best thread going.
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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher? 15
#5: April 04, 2018, 06:17:28 AM
 Your welcome and im glad it helps those who need it. The journey. I dont want to do tbe journey anymore.
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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher? 15
#6: April 04, 2018, 09:38:35 AM
Me, too, completely sick of this journey.
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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher? 15
#7: April 04, 2018, 10:33:24 AM
     Yeah, i think im real close to not standing anymore. I dont think that i have any love or compassion for him any more.
       I have been having a reoccurring dream for about 2 weeks now, that he comes to the house and tells d13 he wants to talk to me. I dont go. Monday night they had an argument that ended with him texting her. Its on my thread. One of the texts says tell your mother to call me. I will talk to her. I havent and wont. He is not telling me what do.
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#8: April 04, 2018, 10:33:48 AM
I’m sick of the journey aswell. I’m still waiting for indifference so I don’t give a damn. He not a husband or a father, he is a *** for the treatment of his children. It’s his loss, no b days or xmas or sons prom next year or daughters in 3 yrs, no attendance at marriages or grandchildren he will see. It’s just you know that a piece is missing at these milestones and that he isn’t bothered that he is missing xx
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Me 55
H56
Divorced 3/dec/2019
Together 30yrs
BD 20/10/2014
Left first 12/12/2014
10 come backs and leaves again for same ow
Last left 7.03.17.
Ow 16 yrs younger, no children never been married. co worker. EA turned to PA and lives with ow
Divorce bomb drop by him 31/8/17 by solicitor letter after being caught by ow at lunch with me 3 wk earlier. Finances Not yet finalised.
Crazy divorce started by him.
Clinging boomerang for 3 yrs now Vanisher but  twice a yr pops his head up. ow has balls in a vice!
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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher? 15
#9: April 04, 2018, 10:34:56 AM
What’s you thread called blue rose? Xx
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H56
Divorced 3/dec/2019
Together 30yrs
BD 20/10/2014
Left first 12/12/2014
10 come backs and leaves again for same ow
Last left 7.03.17.
Ow 16 yrs younger, no children never been married. co worker. EA turned to PA and lives with ow
Divorce bomb drop by him 31/8/17 by solicitor letter after being caught by ow at lunch with me 3 wk earlier. Finances Not yet finalised.
Crazy divorce started by him.
Clinging boomerang for 3 yrs now Vanisher but  twice a yr pops his head up. ow has balls in a vice!
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