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#100: January 22, 2020, 08:59:14 AM
Not able to see sent messages. 

My Messages > Read your messages > Choose "sent messages" from left column > click on a particular message that was sent  > website returns me to the front page of "inbox"
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Re: Forum Problems 2
#101: January 22, 2020, 09:38:05 AM
Same problem. 
You can still read sent messages by scrolling down below the list of sent messages. 
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Re: Forum Problems 2
#102: January 22, 2020, 09:58:56 AM
Yes same here.  Something is not working properly.
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#103: January 22, 2020, 10:36:58 AM
Its working for me, when I get to that page the messages are below, just scroll down.
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#104: January 22, 2020, 02:21:37 PM
I don't see it either, there is no list of "sent messages" as some of you see. I only have the inbox, if I select messages I only get inbox and there is no sent message of any kind. And I do check and have them sent, but there is no place where I can get to see the sent list, only the inbox ones.

Edit: found it! To be explicit when in messages hover on the "Messages" orange item (leftmost item) in the list, a drop down appears, then you can choose "sent messages." Took me a while! Me not so smart....
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#105: January 23, 2020, 05:57:02 AM
Nope, my "sent messages" does not appear, only "messages."
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Re: Forum Problems 2
#106: January 27, 2020, 06:01:27 AM
Something is definitely off this morning...

I was getting error (HTTP 522)  messages from CloudFare Brussels since I am in Europe) this morning that the server hosting the Forum seemed to be bogged down or not answering requests in a timely manner. I also saw errors relating to an expired ICANN Domain validation (the validation was not completed n the allotted time frame).

Once I was able to log in, I see that Acorns thread is getting about 3-4 hits/views per SECOND and I doubt seriously that there are 25K people interested in her thread so it is either a bot that is trolling through the web site and has gotten stuck or something else that is racking up the view counter on her thread. It is looking to be on the order of up to 4000 views per hour....

I suspect that there is some server process or thread that has lost the connection to the kernel and has gone rogue but, without real access to the OS, I can't validate that suspicion....
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#107: January 27, 2020, 06:08:18 AM
Thanks, UM. 
I have posted the following on my thread:

Can someone explain to me what’s going on with the view numbers?

I hope this problem can be rectified ASAP. 

I also noticed the unusual leap in the ‘guests’ numbers. I could be wrong there and I just have a memory problem. 
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Re: Forum Problems 2
#108: January 27, 2020, 06:39:53 AM
I jut pulled some statistics that I can see and, starting on the 3rd of January, we see a statistically huge jump in the number of views. On January 4th, we experienced another 3-fold increase in the number of page views. Those inflated numbers have been pretty steady since with some days reaching 50,000 views.   Something is seriously wrong here because there are only currently about 300 users (247 Guests) online.... there is no way a human could be producing these numbers of views....

Date                                   Page Views
2020-01-02   0   4   0   18   753
2020-01-03   2   36   0   191   4591
2020-01-04   2   88   1   328   12056

2020-01-05   2   106   0   420   11665
2020-01-06   3   101   2   415   11540
2020-01-07   1   87   0   270   10649
2020-01-08   0   102   0   254   11578
2020-01-09   1   100   0   331   40090
2020-01-10   0   124   1   253   11891
2020-01-11   0   76   0   290   10567
2020-01-12   0   60   1   273   11337
2020-01-13   0   119   1   291   19324
2020-01-14   2   116   1   319   17861
2020-01-15   0   70   0   349   13165
2020-01-16   0   84   0   384   20679
2020-01-17   2   136   0   394   18809
2020-01-18   2   93   1   332   15309
2020-01-19   1   100   2   452   22027
2020-01-20   0   80   0   482   31536
2020-01-21   0   100   0   460   27901
2020-01-22   2   104   0   515   33161
2020-01-23   2   77   0   432   44838
2020-01-24   0   54   1   513   23075
2020-01-25   0   64   0   315   26532
2020-01-26   0   45   0   433   51173
2020-01-27   0   26   0   337   8274
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Re: Forum Problems 2
#109: January 27, 2020, 09:15:39 AM
Ursa and other admin team....  Just something that might explain part of the load (but not php/page view related)

Ezoic seems to be loading two tracking pixels (https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/detroitchicago/greenoaks.gif and https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/detroitchicago/greenoaks.gif) from the server about once every second - even if the user is not doing anything.   For example while I have typed this, those two files have been loaded about 200 times  :o.  Also hitting like crazy the Analytics tracking pixel.... So 300 online users, 2 loads per second, 3600 hits per minute - apparently each one one with unique querystring (meaning it is not cached)

You can test/see it pretty easily (if using desktop/laptop).... Go on any page on HS, open browser developer tools (CTRL+SHIFT+J on keyboard, or from top menu), and then head to Network-tab.

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