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Offline lawprofessor

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Off-Topic Re: Forum Problems 2
« Reply #90 on: December 02, 2019, 04:19:25 AM »
Welcome to about day 4 of terrible connection problems, slow service, lost posts etc with no update as to what is going on. 
if people won’t listen to you, there’s no point in talking to people. If they won’t listen, you’re just banging your head against a wall.

Sadly Ive used up all the time I had allotted to spend banging my head on the wall

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Re: Forum Problems 2
« Reply #91 on: December 02, 2019, 06:29:40 AM »
This is the msg I keep getting:

Connection Problems
Sorry, SMF was unable to connect to the database. This may be caused by the server being busy. Please try again later.

Same. Very very slow.
Or doesn't load at all.
Or can't post. Or strangely posts when it says it can't.
T: 18  M: 12 (at BD) No kids.
H diagnosed with severe depression Oct 15. BD May 16. OW since April 16, maybe earlier. Silent vanisher mostly.
Divorced April 18. XH married ow 6 weeks later.
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