I never liked McCain, he's a warmonger. Then I found out about his leaving his first wife, before I was involved in MLC. Then I HATED him. I didn't realize that he and wife #2 didn't really live together. And yes, I think wife #1 is the winner here. Also, FYI, John Gray, author of Men Are from Mars, Women are from Venus dedicated that book to his 2nd wife. They are now divorced. So much for marital advice from him.