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#150: July 04, 2020, 05:45:04 AM
It's scary how I can relate so much to most of the scripts posted here.

I also forgot to mention that MLCer now wants children after the brief conversation. He never ever wanted kids, said something flipped and now he wanted kids  ::) He also mentioned that he was the 'happiest he's ever been' when I moved out, because he's free to spend time on his hobby (almost daily) without me complaining and meeting all the awesome artistic people. Now he said they are a toxic crowd, hmm I TOLD YOU SO!

He is now very spiritual, the awakening he reckons, or psychosis? It all went downhill after the AD meds last year. I wonder if this has to do with FOO issues (no longer on speaking terms with family) plus combination of mental health.
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Re: Script sentences and WTF moments
#151: July 04, 2020, 06:54:26 AM
Absolutely relate,

Especially, I can do what I like , when I like, I can spend what I like, how I like without having to think of you and the kids! I am putting me first!

Perhaps may have been better when the kids weren’t 9 and 11 to put yourself first? Just a thought! Xx
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Re: Script sentences and WTF moments
#152: July 04, 2020, 08:57:55 AM
Absolutely relate,

Especially, I can do what I like , when I like, I can spend what I like, how I like without having to think of you and the kids! I am putting me first!

Perhaps may have been better when the kids weren’t 9 and 11 to put yourself first? Just a thought! Xx
Ugh...I got the same... tired of doing everything for others, needs to put himself first now... our girls are 10 and 13... it is so selfish!!
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#153: July 04, 2020, 03:44:06 PM
Oh yes, I forgot the 22 years of not wanting children, adamant! He DID NOT want children, very very clear. About to get his tubes cut a few months before leaving, to a sudden interest in young children, mentioning children in the village who are adopted ... asking me if I am still happy with the decision we made not to have children, but not talking about his changed decision. Just left me with a very clear feeling that he has changed his mind. He said 'he is questioning decisions made in the past'. Totally changed person.
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Re: Script sentences and WTF moments
#154: July 06, 2020, 11:34:46 AM
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meeting all the awesome artistic people. Now he said they are a toxic crowd, hmm I TOLD YOU SO!

He is now very spiritual, the awakening he reckons, or psychosis? It all went downhill after the AD meds last year. I wonder if this has to do with FOO issues (no longer on speaking terms with family) plus combination of mental health.

Hahaha... The creative / artistic types are the WORST. Well, actually they're no better or worse than any other group out there. Sadly too many groups are just self interested, self righteous, narcissist, mutual enablers that just like a little flair with their alcohol.

Your mlcer sounds both really sheltered and repressed by his family and he's looking for acceptence.

The big draw to both religion and the artsy types is that the both preach unconditional love and acceptence. You just have to show up and walk the talk.

I split ways with the art crowd years ago when I realized that most of them couldn't be bothered to leave the bar to actually go out and support any of the causes they were preaching about constantly.

That and all their so called art or music was feeble derivative  I have an Instagram account too garbage.
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#155: July 12, 2020, 04:48:54 PM
Oh I just remembered one.......

"I should be happy and thankful..... I have a wonderful life".  :o

Um yeah, you should be happy and thankful.

LOL!!!

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New thread:  https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11601.msg770380;topicseen#msg770380
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