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#50: May 14, 2025, 06:23:12 AM
Sounds like ..... well.... life in a normal world!  Enjoy! and Happy Birthday (belated)
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Me - 62, xW - 55
Together 19 years - Married 17 at separation & 21 at D-Day
S - 18, D - 14
1 Dog
BD#1 - August 2015
Atomic BD - 13 Dec 2015
House sold & separated - Mar 2016
Divorce final 30 August 2019
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#51: May 14, 2025, 01:04:46 PM
Nice to hear some updates from you Ready and happy belated birthday to you! Sorry to hear about your mom. I hope she gets better soon. Sounds like you’re living the life you deserve. Happy to hear updates from those who did not only  survived MLC but are also thriving life. Keep updating.
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Me 43 at BD
H    45 at BD
Married 11 yrs at BD, no kids,
BD May 2019 (I moved out Nov 2019)
EA or PA with ex gf (not sure), H spent 3 nights with the hoe during our vacation in July 2019, it was a friendly encounter according to H
H wanted D April 2020 seeing suspected OW2 (divorced with two kids) and 2 years older than him, H didn’t file the D
Clinging boomerang
6/21 H moved in with me; kicked him out 01/22
H turned into a vanisher, wants a Divorce, OW 3 (16 years younger and extreme sporty)
14.11.22 Divorce final, I'm done
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#52: May 17, 2025, 07:07:22 AM
Happy birthday ready! So glad that you had such a wonderful celebration. Also happy that you are traveling as seeing the world is a wonderful thing.

May you continue to shine that light of yours to all the people in your life...you are a really special person and I am so glad that you have found such peace and  happiness!
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"Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see" Hebrews 11:1

"You enrich my life and are a source of joy and consolation to me. But if I lose you, I will not, I must not spend the rest of my life in unhappiness."

" The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it". Flannery O'Connor

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#53: June 03, 2025, 01:32:46 AM
Belated birthday congratulations Ready! Sounds like you had a good day and I'm so happy for you. The travels sound amazing!
Also some heavy things going on in your life.. but you're good in keeping thing in balance and focussing on the good.

Love TH!

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Together for 15 years, married for 4 years
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BD: april '22 (EA + 'I want to live alone, have no responsibilities')
Left home: june '22
Divorce final: october '22

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