" Others have had their children receive birthday presents that are age appropriate for BD-aged children--nor commensurate with their current age."
The other sightly odd thing is that the 4 year old he has with affair partner/new wife is now exactly the age my son was (4 and a bit) when my ex husband left me and the kids. In other words for his (male) children the date the relationship of their parents has broken down is the same age.