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My Story Rebuilding My Beloved has passed away
#10: December 24, 2025, 09:46:04 AM
Oh, xyzcf….  I’m truly sorry for your loss. My heart is with you at this difficult time. 

May God surround you with his infinite love and grace. 

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#11: December 25, 2025, 05:19:28 AM
I'm so sorry XYZCF,

I hope you and D are able to spend some good time together.

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#12: December 26, 2025, 03:22:54 AM
I am so sorry for your loss.
Not your husband, and of the life you lost together.
It is just so hard.
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#13: December 27, 2025, 03:40:20 AM
I’m so sorry for your loss <3 I always have admired you and the love you carried for your family and that you did everything to preserve that, even in the difficult MLc-times. I’m sending you all my love!
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#14: December 27, 2025, 03:59:42 PM
Hi im so sad to read this I came on to give an update, ive not posted in a long time, I do come on now and then to read... sending my prayers to you at this sad time big hugs🙏❤️xxx
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#15: December 28, 2025, 05:16:02 PM
Oh xyz, I send you love during this time of transition. But seeing how you two came full circle at the time it was most important leaves me in awe (I hope that does not make light of your loss). Thank you for coming back to share this with us, as you always said you would.
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#16: December 29, 2025, 09:46:22 PM
I’m so sorry, xyzcf. My thoughts are with you and your daughter during this very challenging time. I’m very glad you were able to have those months together, and I hope the memories offer comfort and a sense of peace. 
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#17: January 05, 2026, 10:20:39 AM
X, my sincere condolences for your and your family's loss. I came back here after months away and this was not what I was hoping to see. Thank you for all you did for me back in the day and you and yours will be in my prayers. Peace to you.
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#18: January 06, 2026, 09:18:34 AM
Dear Friend,

I was saddened to read the news of your beloved passing. I have been on the site for years and your consistent support for all of us as we each dealt with our own crisis has been enormous. I have always admired your commitment to your family and your faith. It really makes you such a noble person that I truly admire and respect. I know your daughter and son-in-law appreciate have you as part of their lives. I do hope that you continue to support others on the site as we know that there will be more that come to our site seeking support and guidance as they deal with the terrible ramifications of MLC. You are in my prayers and please reach out if you need anything.

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#19: January 06, 2026, 09:15:58 PM
Oh my heart dropped so so much when I saw the title of your post!  It also soared when I read that you spent this last time together!  Battles and blessings, battles and blessings.  Seems that is our lot in life on this earth. I looked to see if I still have your number in my phone to send a quick message that way but it's after 10 and I'm afraid that's really late for most folks even though I'm still awake if it's even still your number!  My dear, I am thinking of you and praying for you and your beautiful D in the days ahead.  Please reach out to me if you need someone to talk to!  This is a big loss.  I'm so sorry that you didn't have more time!   :'(
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