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#70: October 11, 2014, 02:25:46 AM
Hi jackolar12

My H says having to give up his 'friend' would mean having to get back on the treadmill. Not sure what that means, but.......whatever.

Hi,it may be he's trying to say his friend takes him away from his normal marital role, the treadmill of normal life.what are your thoughts.
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said 2
#72: October 11, 2014, 11:44:08 AM
In reply to what Jos said about the treadmill.

I have long since believed sometimes we get told things that actually do have meaning and that is one of them.

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If you google the meaning of treadmill you will come up with amongst other things.
A job or situation that is tiring or boring and from which it is hard to escape.

Jos please dont take that persoanally because it is themselves they are running from remember.

So next google escape

Meaning
break free from confinement or control.
A form of temporary distraction from reality or routine.

My h actually said ow was an escape.

Interesting isnt it, at one point I thought I could read into things where he was in the tunnel but it does not work because they cycle so much.

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Re: Funny things my MLC has said 2
#73: October 11, 2014, 01:24:20 PM
Mine said we went to eat pizza too often...

dude we are Italian, unless you want to bring me to an expensive restaurant, pizza it is! Also I should like to point out HE was the one telling me every time he wanted to go have pizza.

Then he whined that we never went out to 'have fun' and get drunk. Well maybe instead of sneaking off to do it with OW he could have taken me. But hey... ;)
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said 2
#74: October 11, 2014, 06:00:54 PM
One from my Genius

He called me ranting and raving because I had too many friends.  I said I'm not the one with 412 friends on Facebook.  He said that was different because those people on OW facebook couldn't possibly like her.  I said oh I can your logic.  You left me for a girl no one can possibly like.  He said, that's right. She is just like me.
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said 2
#75: October 11, 2014, 06:12:16 PM
When Genius told me again we couldn't be together because of the tv show everybody loves Raymond I replied I'm sorry but I'm not doing stupid today.  He asked, well how about tomorrow? I replied, tomorrow is not looking good either.  He then yelled, see OW always makes time for stupid.  I said, I see.  Well then maybe you should call her.  He yelled, OW does not matter at all.  I don't want to talk to her.  Well she is a person so I guess she matters in that sense.  BUT SHE IS NOT IMPORTANT!!!
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said 2
#76: October 11, 2014, 06:18:47 PM
Finally, one last goodie:

Since the only way to communicate with him was Facebook, I once posted, I want off this train wreck.  He posted, you are off it. 

See they do know they are messed up and the OW is really not important in the overall scheme of things.
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said 2
#77: October 11, 2014, 06:31:39 PM
We watched too much TV.  Funny thing is he and OW could be seen online discussing the TV shows they were watching together long distance.  ::)

He told me in email the other day 'I know what I said.'  Really?  Because I have the email where you told me the exact opposite.  That's why I only text or email him anything important.

He also told me once that I don't know how to love.  You mean you stayed with someone for 11 years that didn't know how to love?  I think that was a bit of projection there.  ;)
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said 2
#78: October 19, 2014, 07:47:24 AM
Mine said I walked to fast in front of the pram, my youngest was 17 at the time.
Talk about rewriting history, the judge said to my Mlcer, this is not evidence it's history.
My lawyer had a good chuckle over this and said to me she's really scraping the bottom of the barrel for something to make you seem unreasonable soooo I went home and cut the gussets out of her underwear.
I found her stash of new sexy underwear hidden under my oldest daughters clothes in the airing cupboard ( she never wore theses for me).

My daughters a size 8 and these were size 16 so I guess I got it right.
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said 2
#79: October 19, 2014, 08:24:15 AM
My H said one reason was that I would not have sex with him at our parents' house when we were visiting them.  Keep in mind that we go see our parents no more than 3 times a year for maybe a few days at a time, if that.  We have gone without visiting my parents(b/c they are cool and don't pressure us) for more than a day trip some years.  So yeah, maybe a week all told that he would have to suffer.  And I don't know about you guys but neither set of parents is a big turn on for me.
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