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OP: February 04, 2012, 03:16:39 PM
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said 2
#1: February 04, 2012, 09:12:57 PM
NB, I feel so bad for your son.   :(  My D17 experiences this every week from her dad as well.  The situation is a little different because H wants to spend time with her, but it's a control thing and when they're together he makes it miserable for her.  She usually just refuses to see him now (after trying to explain MANY times how his behavior hurts her, etc), so he regularly asks her "how can you treat me like this" and "do you think this is how God wants you to treat me?".  Other common ones are "you need to treat me better", "you are disrespectful", "I'm the only father you have", blah blah blah.  She tries SO hard to get through to him about her feelings but always gets "you need to get over those feelings and move on".

It's HORRIBLE to watch our kids treated this way by these emotionally adolescent men/boys.  I have to keep counseling her to not engage in the fight and reassure her that she's not doing anything wrong by protecting herself from being his punching bag.  I honestly think he's a bit intimidated by her maturity and level head when he's spinning in a vortex of insanity.  Neither of my girls have any respect for him anymore, but for some reason he attacks D17 almost daily and leaves D14 alone.  He has convinced himself he has a "special bond" with D14 so she gets promises of iphones and other gifts, even though she doesn't see him any more than D17 does.  I think he sees D17 as a lost cause at this point since she will be a legal adult soon.  It's all so warped.  These poor kids.   :'(
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said 2
#2: February 05, 2012, 07:01:46 AM
   Uh-Oh I was gonna come here and write something funny my H said that I remembered and I see Faith talking about the children. :'( F' this mlc we can't even laugh with the kids getting blown apart in the background. So sorry Faith and NB that you have nasty monster mlcers so confused and angry at themselves(taking it out on you lbs and kids) >:(  Prayers and Hugs coming.
    Now the funny thing my H said. ::)
    After his 6 week Houidini Act of disappearing after BD to be with Bowser... :'(  He stood in my kitchen playing with the rim of his hat and staring at his feet. ???  He said at one point (big smiling) "And YOU thought OW was some young chippee and she's old and smart like us." :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o
    Yeah, so smart she had no car, no ac, no tv, no friends, no 7 year old son, no morals, no boyfriend just MY H!   LOL!  She's smart like us ??? ::) :P  Please dis-include ME from this trio of rocket scientists ::)
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#3: February 05, 2012, 07:08:33 AM
I will remove you from the list Mamma. ;D Last summer my H was telling me how much better I have it here at the house than he does at his condo. To ram his point home he bellowed" I only have basic cable and YOU have HBO!"
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said 2
#4: February 05, 2012, 07:12:53 AM
  Learning, He THOUGHT that I THOUGHT ow was a young chippee ???
  What drunk drug addict can pick up a young chipee ???
  Don't answer that...please :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o
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#5: February 05, 2012, 08:41:56 AM

Hi Faith and Mamma ~  It really is a shame that these MLCers take their anger out on their kids.  It really breaks my heart.  It's to the point with my son that he wonders if his father even loves him.  I tell him he does and that he is just lost.   Sometimes I feel like my H only comes to see his son out of obligation or even to show everyone that he does love his son, that he does come to see him.  Like he is trying to prove to everyone he is a good father.  :o  From what my son says, his father is miserable to be around, Mr. Negative.
Thats what really ticks me off.  He hardly spends any time with our son so why can't he be nice to him when he is with him?
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said 2
#6: February 05, 2012, 08:47:32 AM
Quote from: Mamma Bear on February 05, 2012, 07:12:53 AM
  Learning, He THOUGHT that I THOUGHT ow was a young chippee ???
 
Okay guys - for all of us downunder - what on earth is a chippee.  The mind boggles  ;)
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#7: February 05, 2012, 08:56:56 AM
  KiKi, I think it's a young, blonde, perky,  dumb,  air-head Barbie Doll with big boobs :o :o :o :o :o :o :o     LOL..just a guess. Do you have those 'down under' ??? ??? ??? ??? ???
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#8: February 05, 2012, 09:00:50 AM
Oh yeah Mama - we have chippees here too  ;D ;D ;D
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#9: February 05, 2012, 09:06:42 AM
 KiKi so my lost and angry and confused self pity filled H ran to an ugly Affair Doown and lives in squalor. Oh there's another funny thing he said "You're probably wondering why I left this big beautiful house to go live in a s**thole?"            8 weeks post BD he was all so  ;D ;D to tell me I should have seen it coming.....Now ???   Somebody is having second thoughts ::) ::) ::)  Or mlc time thousands of second thoughts :o :o :o :o :o :o
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