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#100: August 05, 2014, 10:28:27 AM
Thanks for the reminder songanddance :)
I like listening to his podcasts too....its been a little while since I pulled one up !
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Re: Links/blogs/articles for us all to share.
#101: August 05, 2014, 12:03:39 PM
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Re: Links/blogs/articles for us all to share.
#102: August 05, 2014, 02:42:05 PM
http://www.recover-from-grief.com/7-stages-of-grief.html

Here is a really useful informative website on the seven stages of grief.
Whilst the site is aimed at bereavement, the stages and side discussions are all useful to help you especially newbies understand your feelings.
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#103: August 05, 2014, 05:07:49 PM
Excellent article on the grief stages Song and Dance. Thanks for posting
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#104: August 06, 2014, 04:18:11 AM
Thanks Pixie - good to know that it's all helping.
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#105: September 24, 2014, 10:18:50 AM
Two more podcasts from Lee Baucom

This one is for all newbies and even some "oldies". IT is about the affair and what fuels it. If you are reeling from the shock of an affair and want to know what drives someone to do this and its potential longevity then this is for you..

http://savethemarriage.com/stmblog/?powerpress_pinw=1556-podcast

This second one is from a newish website he has called thriveoloy.com. Today this was what I needed and wanted to hear - how to get out of my own LBS fog....Absolutely brilliant and sent me into work this morning with a big grin on my face!!
http://thriveology.com/?powerpress_pinw=235-podcast
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#106: September 24, 2014, 11:02:35 AM
S&D~  I listen to both podcasts also....... he is always right on the mark for me :)
thanks for sharing!
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#107: September 30, 2014, 02:40:31 PM
http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p027nbn3

This is a three minute podcast called thought for the day BBC radio 4.

I heard it this morning and whilst it's not about MLC per se, it is talking about the embarrassment that a minister put himself through in showing explicit photos to an undercover journalist. It also refers to Walter Mitty moments/fantasies we all go through but how we make the choices to carry them out.  It is literally a very good thought for the day.
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Lancet article on midlife dip in happiness
#108: November 06, 2014, 01:54:19 AM
This study was published today and shows what we've always asserted, that happiness is at its lowest between the ages of 45-54. It also correlates this phenomenon specifically with Western countries.

http://www.thelancet.com/journals/lancet/article/PIIS0140-6736%2813%2961489-0/fulltext?_eventId=login
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Re: Lancet article on midlife dip in happiness
#109: November 06, 2014, 03:48:30 AM
Yup, BD was almost 4 years ago.  My H was 46.
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