[Wed2Him?Whatever.]

There was an old thread on this topic that was put in Archives: http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=284.0;all

I am starting this because of a dream I had the other night.  In the dream I was at home and I got a text from my H saying he was kissing some girl and she was really sweet.  So I texted back to ask him why he would even send me such a text at that...

Next thing I know he shows up, walks in all smiles (smirking actually) and begins making himself at home (taking off shirt, then shoes) as if he hasn't been moved out for like half a year now.  I'm like, "What is this, you're home now?  Just like that?  What is your deal?  At least tell me you've LEARNED something!?!"  (I guess I went into a full-on nag mode, I was so much in shock!)

My H starts to throw his shirt back on and says, "Yeah... to go to a ow next time."   

A noise woke me up right then and so the dream was over.  Can't imagine how it would've ended had it been able to continue.

[Peony2012]

Ah W2H4E, good topic!

What a dream!!!!! LOL!!! The smirk!!! 

A few weeks before BD, I dreamt H was being horrible to me (call it a premonition!!!  )
I woke up and told him about it. I still remember it to this day as it was a horrible dream and stayed with me all day. He was MONSTER.

Anyway, through all this I never really dreamt much, only had one dream after BD where H and I went for a long walk along a beach and held each other tightly.

I only started having dreams about H again quite recently. They are mostly positive. In one of them I dreamt he had moved to a houseboat and had started smoking roll-ups (H never smoked). Quite relaxing. haha! The funny thing about that dream was that I remember he named the boat "Hair" which is hilarious considering that H has always been very hairy!!!!!!

OH and there was one HILARIOUS one, in my dream I was holding a baby (not mine though), H was standing next to me and taking a photo of me holding the baby, I look down and the baby has a FULL SET OF TEETH!!!!  Honestly, how weird is that.. They were very small, BUT a full set of them! 

Last night I dreamt we were out somewhere and he called me his 'Girlfriend' and I said something like: "So is this your way of telling me that we are back together??"

Dreams ey?

Peonyxxx

[LittleDragonfly]

Ergh. These last few days have been a doozy.

This morning I dreamed the wife of a couple we know was breaking up with her husband. In real life, the husband-then-fiance had an inappropriate relationship that was discovered in the church, and they were counseled before the wife decided to stand by him. They were married a year later. In the dream, she was breaking up with him, coming to see me, and I kept trying to tell her I still wanted to stay with my relationship.

The day before that, I had a dream where I was preparing for a wedding... but I think I forgot shoes, and was panicking. No clue who the groom was, though.

A few days before that... I was in that semi-wake, semi-asleep state (kind of like a sleep walking dream)... and I dreamt that my H came into the room and sort of embraced/pinned me down like he used to do with affection. I sort of looked at him and sort of asked what was he doing? And he smiled and nuzzled and said "what does it look like?"

Another one involved ... a dog/monster that had a mouth on its back ... and I had to stab it with a knife?

Okay... I would really like these dreams to stop now, thanks. 

[Thundarr]

I've been having this one in which my W turned into this crazy-eyed evil person who said terrible things to me and then filed for divorce, later justifying her actions by saying it would make her a better person and a better mother.  She then went on a crazy spree of moving to a ghetto and befriending a lawyer who looks like Nosferatu and his bariatric wife along with a gaggle of bizarre new friends and old divorced women.  She stopped acting like a parent and became more like a crazy aunt to the kids who only shows up sporadically when she can buy them something or take them out to eat.  She started living like a college kid after that and moved to a always-trashed apartment by herself and behaving like a teenager living in a dorm or something.  It's the most bizarre nightmare I've ever had and I'll be damn glad when I wake up from it and get back to my normal life!!

Oh......wait......

[Peony2012]

Oh Thundarr, this REALLY made me chuckle I'm so sorry!!!
 

[LittleDragonfly]

Aw man, Thundarr. I chuckled a little too.


soooo....  I dreamed that I confronted the OW. We were all in a hotel room...?! And at first, she denied the A, she demanded how I knew.. And then she turned smug that she 'loved' with him. And I just kept at her (I was awesome-- controlled, angry but not vicious, firm, etc) until she turned nasty... And then H seemed to just sort of  .....

And the next thing I know, she's turned into a Barbie doll.  And I sort of shake her, and show her to the H, going, seriously? Her? And H seems to be wondering the same thing.


....her head eventually pops off, and I wake up. 

As dreams go... It wasn't too bad. LOL.

[iamnottheenemy]

Sorry Thundarr, I laughed too.  No weird dreams for me.  I was having so much trouble sleeping, I've been on a steady diet of low-dose Benadryl for about three months.  Once I'm out, I don't remember a thing.

[Chickpea]

IANTE:  I actually said that to my spouse after BD- "why are you treating me your enemy?" 
I dreamnt just last nite- we were face to face- very close and I asked him how many times in our marriage of 29 years did you cheat on me?  He said "7"- then I said, you actually counted them?  In the dream I could smell him and see his face up close but he looked more the the man I married when he was so much younger.
The dream lingered on what seemed like forever and then I woke up to my nightmare of a life. 

[With Gods Help!]

I have loads of dreams but ive forgot now........i was laughing that hard at peonies dreams with hair and teeth i nearly wet myself.......i haven't laughed that hard for awhile........i bet neighbors think ive finally cracked up since its 10pm at night ........ thanks need to read the rest now xxxxxxxx


Ha edited to had whats with the the mouth on the back of a dog lol.........and the barbie doll one........sure tell you were dreaming there more look freaking CHUCKIE  xxxxx

[Ntmalu]

I have constant dreams about OW.. I dream of seeing his phone with texts on it from her.. His phone is a big trigger.. He told me the other day he is paranoid of being on his phone if I am around.. I said .. Well if your not doing anything wrong, why be paranoia ..