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Regardless of the #ofBD, where is the LBS in their timeline?

0-12 months
8 (11%)
13-24 months
19 (26%)
25-36 months
18 (24.7%)
37-48 months
21 (28.8%)
49 months or more
7 (9.6%)

Total Members Voted: 73

Voting closed: February 06, 2013, 08:48:35 AM

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Author Topic: MLC Monster Where are you since BD1?

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MLC Monster Re: Where are you since BD1?
#20: December 22, 2012, 06:06:21 PM
I've been standing for him since the 1st BD which was June 2008. I've been standing for me 2 years now and loving every minute of it. I remain single and haven't dated. I've looked at the options out there and since I've grown up I've out grown most of the men out there in my neighborhood. Single is the best option for me in my stage of the game I have all the joy and contentment I need.
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Re: Where are you since BD1?
#21: January 02, 2013, 09:49:55 AM
6 yrs now this month . I believe it started back in 2004 or 2003 .but he didnt move out until jan 2006.
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Re: Where are you since BD1?
#22: January 02, 2013, 09:51:29 AM
SORRY I MEANT TO SAY 2007
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Re: Where are you since BD1?
#23: January 12, 2013, 03:08:47 PM
Bumping Up. Noticed that there are few new posters or "newbies". Perhaps they also want to weigh in with their
"time since BD".
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Re: Where are you since BD1?
#24: January 14, 2013, 01:12:03 PM
BD was 6.5 months ago.  Discovered this wonderful place and the concept of standing in September.  Pretty quickly realized I'll stand to give myself and D11 time to heal.
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H 50
M 46
D 16
T 22 years
M 20 years
BD 6/24/12
D & I moved out 7/1/12 (pre-planned)
OW1  June 2012
OW2 Sept. 2012
OW3 Nov. 2012
OW4 Dec. 2012-present
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Re: Where are you since BD1?
#25: January 14, 2013, 01:46:42 PM
I'm not currently standing.  Stood for longer than I feel I should have.  It's been 28 months since BD but there were other
earlier affairs that I didn't find out about until after the BD I'm counting from.  I'm dating and enjoying my life!  I find
that it's not so much exH I miss, it's the family unit and the fairytale (fairytales aren't suppose to end in D you know!  >:( )
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Me 48
H 46
M 25 years, together 27
S 20
D 18
BD 8/2/2010
Divorced
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