[Returned]

I am a little curious here. My MLCer is 58 and BD was 18 months ago. Who is the oldest MLCer on this board? I mean do these guys ever grow out of this?

[calamity]

Can't remember who's but I think one is 65.

[limitless]

Wondering's H?

My H will be 60 this year.  BD was 3 years ago - May 29th.

L

[Chrysalis]

My ex will be 60 this year too.  The OW (who I am pretty sure is also an MLCer) is 61.

BD will be three years ago this September.

C

[wondering]

Yes, I win  My H is 66. Athough he is in the latter stages of MLC now, he was 64 when I got the good old BD.   Kind of late for a MLC but my H was always a late bloomer   He has always lived somewhat like a kid. He surfs and rides his dirt bike, loves sailing, etc.

[TrustingMyHP]

My STBX is 62, he'll be 63 in four months.  BD was  3 months after his 60th birthday and he left immediately to live with OW (who's now 56).

Seven years before he began his relationship with OW he was fired from his job as president of the company he'd founded 11 years before and which he'd sold two years before.  Three years after that his 83 year old mother (with whom he had a very strained relationship) died, as did a beloved friend of ours (of leukemia) 3 months later.  Our friend was only 56. 

Three years after that he had to have a stent put in his heart to correct a 99% coronary artery blockage.  18 months after that he had a "spiritual awakening" which had a profound impact on him and caused a major "shift" in his feelings and thinking.  Three months after that he met OW and their affair began.

So I think the triggers  for his MLC began when he was 52 (when he was fired) and BD itself happened when he was 60. 

Our 40th wedding anniversary was this week.

TMHP

[OldPilot]

I sure HOPE that I dont have an MLC in 5 more years when I turn 64........    
TMHP looks like you may have the combined total championship.
Your age plus your husbands age,

[brokenhearted]

My partner will be 61 this June. Was 59 at BD.

[Returned]

So here is my question, do you feel that there are any differences with the older MLCers in terms of length of replay? likelihood of return?

[brokenhearted]

My partner will be 61 in June...within less than a year of BD he was engaged to ow, now married to her...I do not believe he will return. he has been a high energy vanisher...who knows what is next for him...maybe a first time dad at 61????lol
Maybe the older MLCers feel the "time crunch" more...mine kept saying he was running out of time at BD...I had no idea what he was talking about at the time.