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#10: July 23, 2013, 01:16:14 AM
Quote from: lawprofessor on July 22, 2013, 03:15:45 PM
I cannot remember the last time he really laughed and smiled.   

I see this too,  we used to laugh together all the time and I thought it was wonderful to have such an intellectual connection.  We are still - surreally - able to talk very easily about many things but I haven't seen him laugh or really smile for months and months.
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Re: MLC script IV
#11: July 23, 2013, 01:56:20 AM
They can't laugh or smile but insist they are so happy with the choices they made. Ironic isn't it? Oh no, that's right, just MLC crazy! :o
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Re: MLC script IV
#12: July 23, 2013, 02:04:08 AM
Quote from: justbelieve on July 23, 2013, 01:56:20 AM
They can't laugh or smile but insist they are so happy with the choices they made. Ironic isn't it? Oh no, that's right, just MLC crazy! :o

I got   'I am so happy, but I don't want to show how happy I am because that would not be fair'... ::)

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Re: MLC script IV
#13: July 23, 2013, 02:17:29 AM
That seems to be my problem also but mostly it's other people I'm afraid to show my happiness to. I know everyone knows I don't have the kids (D20 D17) and they know they are my whole world. So how could I possibly be happy?  :o

Believe me I don't miss him.

What you can't change you just have to accept- there are worse things that could happen I guess
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Re: MLC script IV
#14: July 23, 2013, 06:06:53 AM
Heres a some good ones.

I can eat with you drink with you and love you till my dying day, but I cant be happy for me, I know this sounds selfish but I just want to give me some undivided attention and I think I deserve that after all this time of doing everything for everyone else.

This might be the biggest mistake I ever make, but I dont think so.

After wanting to be on his own and then taking up with ow, he said, maybe I was just lonely.

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Re: MLC script IV
#15: July 27, 2013, 07:16:54 AM
From someone's post on somewhere...

people seem to manage when they divorce.
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#16: July 30, 2013, 06:15:20 AM
I believe this is worthy of this thread as well:

"There are three people suffering right now!" (and he did not mean the children)
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Re: MLC script IV
#17: August 25, 2013, 06:17:10 AM
Till now I got these:
 I'm not 'in 'love'
 You don't clean the place well ( maybe cause I worked full time at my own business , helping him out at his for free and raising two kids, while he sleeps till noon I'd be tired out already)
 Let's take it a step at a time
 I don't know what the future holds
 We still have a chance (2 weeks after BD)
 Find someone else I want to c u happy (yeah with 2 small kids passing through a trauma, that's exactly what they need to c)
 Be happy and keep God in you heart.
 Life is too short
 We haven't brought the best out of each other (after 8 yrs?????)
 It did not work out
 I must really be evil
 and I do believe there will be more to come  :-\ :o :o
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Re: MLC script IV
#18: September 04, 2013, 07:09:51 PM
You don't like to drink coffee.

Everything happens for a reason.

You had choices - I didn't.  Now it's my turn.

I need to be able to stand on my own.  Be responsible.  So you'll respect me.

You talk too much.

There's nothing wrong with me.

You use too much cheese in your cooking.

Is all there is?

You wouldn't watch Breaking Bad with me.

I don't have to listen to you anymore.

You wouldn't dye your hair.

Cry in the shower like I did so you won't upset the girls.

You ask too many questions.

I don't have to do what you want.

You didn't clean the toilets. (he's got me on that one)
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Re: MLC script IV
#19: September 04, 2013, 09:43:48 PM
'I want to take us back to zero forget the past and take it from there'. Ok h let's forget that we've got two kids together
Life is too short.
I have no time to waste.
I did not leave the kids I disintegrated by choice (what????????)
I never abandon anyone
I was with you cause I pitied you.
I did not abandon the kids but you.
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