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#180: March 22, 2014, 11:29:43 AM
I tried to wake the exmil up a while ago I said "HE WAS LYING TO EVERYBODY!!"

Oh not HER son he's perfect!

And he's still doing it.
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Re: MLC script IV
#181: March 22, 2014, 12:28:22 PM
Standing strong I really liked your link. It goes to the core of how MLCers paint themselves as the victim to the OW, and the OW willingly chooses to accept outlandish stories.
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Re: MLC script IV
#182: March 22, 2014, 01:09:02 PM
OMG, that link took me to the emotional manipulators and there is my h right there!! I am going to post his photo right next to that whole article.

Just for the record he was this way before mlc too.

Boy was I taken for. Ride. Shame on me !!!!

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Re: MLC script IV
#183: March 27, 2014, 12:57:59 PM
At BD from H and multiple times prior to move. Imagine this said at a frantic, sobbing pace over and over. This crazy, animated script below....

I don't want anyone to tell me there is anything wrong with me. I hate it when people try to tell me I have done something wrong or something is wrong with me. Nothing is wrong with me. I don't want someone to tell me my medication isn't working (it can't work a miracle) and I don't want someone to tell me this is a midlife crisis. I'm perfectly fine. I felt this 6 months ago. I felt this a year ago. I felt this 5 years ago. I felt this for the last 12 years. I'm so sick of people trying to tell me there might be something wrong with me. I'm fine.

Picture of stability :D
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Re: MLC script IV
#184: March 27, 2014, 02:09:12 PM
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It goes to the core of how MLCers paint themselves as the victim to the OW, and the OW willingly chooses to accept outlandish stories.

I found an email from H to ow saying "Why oh why does this keep following me? I can't handle it." and her reply " I'm so, so sorry."
Bleh. Can you say drama?

And after I told him to look up mid life crisis as I thought he was having one (before I came here) he came back with "Well I can see how you would think I'm having one as it all seems to fit, but I'm not having one." I was like  ??? ??? If the shoe fits........... ::)

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Re: MLC script IV
#185: March 27, 2014, 02:21:27 PM
 ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D If it looks like a duck and acts like a duck?......
Denial is an amazing thing.... ::)
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.

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Re: MLC script IV
#186: March 27, 2014, 03:05:55 PM
And after I told him to look up mid life crisis as I thought he was having one (before I came here) he came back with "Well I can see how you would think I'm having one as it all seems to fit, but I'm not having one." I was like  ??? ??? If the shoe fits........... ::)
Denial is an amazing thing.... ::)

Yes denial is an amazing thing.........................

I think that they can't admit that anything is wrong because then they would need to fix it. They don't want to fix it yet; they want to run...................
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Re: MLC script IV
#187: March 27, 2014, 03:12:57 PM
There's nothing to fix remember?? There's NOTHING WRONG with them.

So let them run..tell them to sell crazy someplace else.. we're all stocked up here.

(Seriously you simply cannot make this $h!te up..)
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.

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Re: MLC script IV
#188: March 27, 2014, 03:16:46 PM
There's nothing to fix remember?? There's NOTHING WRONG with them.

Exactly........................I think they try very hard to convince themselves of this until they just can't do it anymore.
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BD - December 2012
OW1 confirmed - December 2012 on-and-off for 34 months and counting (still refers to her as just a 'friend')
Wants to live like roommates - November 2013
I moved out - April 2015
H is still checking the anchor

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Re: MLC script IV
#189: March 27, 2014, 03:46:41 PM
I don't know if this is script, or not but just for a laugh. At BD my H said of the OW, she took the sword of hate from my hand and let me love again. I said well that sword is sticking out of my back. You are all right you just can't make this crap up. LOL
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