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#100: November 25, 2014, 05:48:04 AM
Exactly and that's all it is..it's how he makes her feel about herself..that's not love. It infatuation or obsession.

Everyone what's to feel desired...but IMHO that's something they have the confidence to feel within them selves to know they are and may meet someone who has the same confidence level.

Everyone has certain ways..signals they may send out that expresses that kind of interest.Some may come right flat out and say something.

Everyone has people who they enjoy the company of. They enjoy having around them. No one wants to spend time with someone who makes them feel bad about themselves.
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Re: MLC script V
#101: November 25, 2014, 06:05:16 AM
Yep, it's all about the infatuation. They fixate on the feelings. But infatuation lasts a year or two and them reality sets in. Just wait...one day his farts won't be funny/cute, anymore. All those little things will begin to build up, and she just might reE how good she had it with TN.

Quote from: in it on November 25, 2014, 05:48:04 AM
No one wants to spend time with someone who makes them feel bad about themselves.

True, except we don't make them feel bad about themselves. They do that all by themselves but prefe to blame us.
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Re: MLC script V
#102: November 25, 2014, 06:09:10 AM
Exactly...Sorry....I didn't mean to make that statment they do blame their unhappiness on everyone else  :)
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Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

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Re: MLC script V
#103: November 25, 2014, 06:09:41 AM
Quote from: Medusa on November 25, 2014, 06:05:16 AM

True, except we don't make them feel bad about themselves. They do that all by themselves but prefe to blame us.

QFT!  I agree 100%.  Its still hard to accept, but the bottom line is they look to us for their happiness.  They need to figure out the ONLY person responsible for their happiness is THEMSELVES. 

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Re: MLC script V
#104: November 25, 2014, 06:39:30 AM
Quote from: nah on November 25, 2014, 04:09:02 AM
Quote from: Medusa on November 24, 2014, 04:33:45 PM
Sexually, mine became just as selfish as he is in all other ways. Its all about him and his flaccid little Pen!$.

HAHAHAHA....This is the first thing I read this morning.  Better than a cup of coffee.  ;D ;D ;D

We had a great sex life, I was one of those crazy housewives that couldn't wait until he came home so I could jump him.  The last 5-6 years he started to be unable to "finish".  I don't mean me (b/c I can 'finish' while driving to the grocery store...lol) I mean him.  It got to the point where he only "finish" maybe 1 out of 10 times.  Did anyone else have this experience?  I thought it was just a normal reaction to loss of testosterone over the years.  He didn't have a flaccid problem until the very end, and I think that was probably just guilt.

I'm thinking he must be having the same problem again by now.  I doubt she is as eager as I was, maybe that's why I don't focus too much on her.  Why why why is he still with her though?  Hasn't even looked back like so many on here do.
Mine could cut diamonds as well...pretty much our entire time together...and for part of the cake eating too. What we had was fantastic...the man set the bar high and we'd always say it was a new top 5 or a new top 3 finish. Lol Then he started on the sex shop pills & it's never been the same. I suspect they are what makes him finish before he wants to as well...the man could go and go before...maybe that's why he just wants quickies now...he can't keep from shootin' like a teen.  ;D Wouldn't you think if ya like sex as much as he does that he'd be able to figure out that the plumbing ALWAYS worked before and now with OW that it does not?

I also believe it was our connection that made it so good & if you're not with the right person, it won't be as good either. Only reason I say this is because my exH & I never had a connection like that & I spent 7 years thinking sex was just something you did once in a while because you were married and it's what married people do. That man could NOT cut diamonds...ever. Lol

Sorry guys if the current discussion makes you uncomfortable. We really do mean it when we say size does not matter...it's the brains behind the operation that really counts!  ;)
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Re: MLC script V
#105: November 25, 2014, 08:05:05 AM
Ok guy number 2 chipping.

When xW and I got together she seemed pretty timid, inexperienced and shy, she wasn’t into anything other than straight up and down missionary. If I tried to talk about sex she would shut me down immediately. If I mentioned experimenting she would say all of that is disgusting. If she wanted sex, her way of initiating  would be to say, “lets go to bed early”, “lets have a quickie” (we never had any marathons) or she would just hitch up nightdress and kick me when we were under the covers.

From what I’ve seen, now that she is in MLC she is into all sorts, where to start. Home movies, yes,  she’s filmed  several herself times with OM’s, obsession with P*nis (is the plural peenai ?) lots of pictures on her phone, porn lots of downloads on her computer including bondage stuff which she was discussing with the latest OM, possibly making another movie, (she’s only know him a couple of months). Sexting nonstop, discussing different sexual positions, Sex toy, sex food, crotch less underwear it went on and on.

How did I feel, hurt (cut to the core), cheated, bitter angry all of those things, never a hint of those sexual things while we were married. I’m a hot blooded guy, fit and strong and she ditches me to carry on with these bums. I did take it all personally, and yes I can cut diamonds too.

Lanzo

(Where this all comes under MLC script I’m not sure).
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#106: November 25, 2014, 08:27:57 AM
 ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

I don't know I just know I'm tired..tired of the whole thing. I had a lot of flings in my twenties only a few really give me any fond memories.

He refered to the exow as pig sex and I still have trouble understanding how you have sex with someone you find repulsive... ::)
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At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

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Re: MLC script V
#107: November 25, 2014, 08:39:28 AM
that's what i don't get. h says she grosses him out cause she is hairy and her skin is rough and she has a mustache. see my skin is soft and nice to touch and i don't have the hair issue cause, well natives just aren't hairy.

said he kissed her one time and her facial hair got stuck in his teeth...barf.  plus she is the opposite of what he likes physically. he is a butt man and she has a 2x4 wood plank back there and no shape, unless you call an upside down pyramid a shape. she is basically everything physically and personality wise he despises in a person so i know it is supposed to be something he is working through but that still doesn't mean i understand how you can be with someone you normally would never look twice at.
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Re: MLC script V
#108: November 25, 2014, 08:46:48 AM
Lanzo, it's script because they all seem to change somehow, be it ability, attitude, type of person. The script here is sexual changes...maybe the sex needs it's own thread...it is a huge part of a relationship with another person. It has to be a huge factor in what plays out in MlC.

As for the change in your W...I'd just go out on a limb here and say the internet plays a big part in what one tries now versus what one may have tried 15-20 years ago. I had no idea that there was such a vast array of different positions, toys, etc. when I first got married...but then he never suggested anything either. We had like one toy...and thank goodness for that because it was required with him. The internet has opened up a whole new world as far as sex is concerned.
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Re: MLC script V
#109: November 25, 2014, 08:49:44 AM
Blackice, mine is with someone he wouldn't look twice at either. He even took up smoking so he wouldn't have to taste her. He always said kissing someone who smoked was like licking an ashtray. Why the heck would that all of a sudden be attractive?
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