[paradigmshift]

For example why are women louder in bed.. As scientist describe it:  female copulation vocalization.   Quite gender specific.   Scientist study it across species and it is most common in species with high female competition.

Learnt something new and interesting. I wished men were more vocal. It works magic.

[nah]

For example why are women louder in bed.. As scientist describe it:  female copulation vocalization.   Quite gender specific.   Scientist study it across species and it is most common in species with high female competition.

Learnt something new and interesting. I wished men were more vocal. It works magic.

Agree, Agree, Agree....husband was not very vocal, when I started dating and boyfriend was vocal,
I love it!!  Male screamers??...really cool, you know in a baritone kind of way...

Why should I be the only who thinks of cool things to say??

[terrified_in_TN]

LOL!  I have always been kind of shy and embarrass easily.  Hard to be vocal when you don't want the kids to hear you!

Now get a night alone in the house....My neighbors down the street will know what is going on...

-T

[Thundarr]

.knowing what women find attractive is not a bad thing.

We already know this.  They want "bad boys."  That's why schmucks like us find ourselves here while almost all the women are longing for the womanizing, hard-partying abusive men.  We're pretty much screwed (and not in the way we want to be!).

[bipolared]

I agree with Picton.
 Before I had children I used to refer to other women as conniving, backstabbing ows.  Then I bonded with women and started looking at men in a different way.  Now I see neither sex is better, just different;  it would be a shame not to learn from each other.  I always enjoyed the male perspective on here and was not offended but good that you have a place to vent.

[OldPilot]

.knowing what women find attractive is not a bad thing.

We already know this.  They want "bad boys."  That's why schmucks like us find ourselves here while almost all the women are longing for the womanizing, hard-partying abusive men.  We're pretty much screwed (and not in the way we want to be!).

Not sure I agree with that.

I am sure a PHD therapist with three kids could be VERY attractive without being a BAD BOY!

[terrified_in_TN]

I just thought of something...should probably take it to my own thread, but while on the subject...in my case we seemed to ALWAYS have had someone living with us.  A brother-in-law, sister-in-law, grown children, etc.  I really didn't mind too much, but I do think it took its toll on our r.  W even said "I have been taking care of people my whole life, now its time for ME to have fun."  Hmmmm, funny that was HER choice as I pretty much let her make those kinds of decisions.

As it applies to the subject at hand...its hard to "let loose" in the bedroom when someone is ALWAYS in the house.  Not saying things were bad in that department, but sometimes you just want to be vocal, and even carry the session all over the house!!! 

-T

[terrified_in_TN]

.knowing what women find attractive is not a bad thing.

We already know this.  They want "bad boys."  That's why schmucks like us find ourselves here while almost all the women are longing for the womanizing, hard-partying abusive men.  We're pretty much screwed (and not in the way we want to be!).

  Hmmm...I don't think that is always the case, but often is.

My wife obviously wanted the "white picket fence" and "the good guy" when she was younger.  She never went through the "bad boy" phase.....until MLC.

-T

[OldPilot]

My wife obviously wanted the "white picket fence" and "the good guy" when she was younger.  She never went through the "bad boy" phase.....until MLC.

I dont think the point is for us to change ourselves into BAD BOYS as that will only attract BAD GIRLS.
Not what I want at least.

I know there are plenty of people who will find you quite attractive(talking about women not me)

[terrified_in_TN]

I know there are plenty of people who will find you quite attractive(talking about women not me)

LMAO!  Thanks I needed that this morning!

-T