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#50: February 01, 2011, 02:59:06 AM
Shantilly

Thats a really good idea. We can all gather round and chat to each other. Maybe we could do that in May. It would be lovely for you to take part and a lot of hotels have internet access.

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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#51: February 02, 2011, 07:02:28 AM

UPDATE

Hi all - please let me have if your interested in the second LBS conference in Stayed home city - now will be in April as May is proving difficult for Stayed to host.

Please PM me with your home email, full name, tel number and where you live OK then I can send out a whats happening email with proposed dates
Need ASAP

JA is in charge of the IT for Shantily Lace joining in to the party!!!! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#52: February 02, 2011, 07:31:53 AM
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The gauntlet is down and the challenge on. Shantilly will be at the ball.........  ;)

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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#53: February 03, 2011, 01:44:28 AM
Expected nothing less from you JA ............

lets face it a challenge like this with what we are and you are personally - going through
is a walk in the park hey???  ;D ;D
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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#54: February 03, 2011, 02:35:55 AM
Ladies

Next meeting is in Europe April 8 - 10/11th Please let Stayed know by PM -  by next week if you can atttend to get the least expensive  hotel and travel prices !!

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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#55: February 03, 2011, 06:57:43 AM
Hi there Bewilderer:

I feel so RUDE, I only just found this thread, or I would have sent my sincere thank you for a superbly organized weekend.  I adored meeting you all, found it relaxing, fun and amazingly uplifting and hopeful.  I can't wait to do it again....

WAIT.... right, we are doing it again April 8 -10, 2011.   ;D

Xyzcf... You could stay at my house for the entire week if you like.  We are booked to go home for arrival of ANOTHER GRANDCHILD...right after Easter weekend... that is why the date had to be changed from May to April. 

As Bewilderer said, meeting these ladies has been one of the loveliest experiences of my life.  Strong, resilient, LOVING... oh my gawd... so LOVING... women, was an amazing experience. 

Anybody interested please let us know... please enclose your personal email addresses if you trust us enough hehehe  8) and we will send you hotel information and a lose schedule of events. 

Once again Bewilderer, fantastic weekend.  Thank you so much for thinking of me...

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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#56: February 03, 2011, 08:15:25 AM
Ladies,
I am soooooo envious!  I wish that I could be there, too!
I will be with you all in spirit!

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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#57: February 03, 2011, 10:19:56 AM
Stayed

Thanks for your kind words I too want to say how lovely it was to meet you and everyone else am still getting over the cold Moving Forward gave me .. can type just can't speak lost my voice!!
so looking forward to April and Niff Naff has confirmed she is coming too!!

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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#58: February 03, 2011, 10:30:00 AM
Oh wow, Niff Naff... she is really starting to move, isn't she.... FANTASTIC!  I couldn't be more pleased...

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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#59: February 03, 2011, 11:47:58 AM
Just wanted to add my voice: Bewildered, thank you, thank you, thank you. You are so together, organised, confident; what an inspiration!

Apart from the opportunity to meet you all, this weekend helped me feel stronger, more independent; made me see that we can all survive despite what our Hs do, and reinforced the therapeutic value of laughter.

I'm thinking about April at Stayed's. Sounds good.
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